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Theyamyum
November 3rd, 2012, 01:23 PM
Ok so here's the problem... I love this guy but he doesn't like me... He's the complete heartthrob of my school. He's the head of the school rugby team and water polo so he really buff. He's my friend though but nothing more. He lives just down my street so we see each other all the time and we play polo together and football but he brings his friends along so there's no time for me to talk to him. Sadly when in was playing polo with him he was on *the poolside all wet and georgeous so i got a boner and he looked stright at me at that moment and i blushed and tryed to explain it away... So now he thinks im really strange and like fat butch women...He's going out with my best friend which doesn't help as I'll talk to my friend and this guy will always be next to me flirting and stuff. My friend knows I like him and loves teasing me about it but he doesn't relie I'm gay and he would be pretty freaked if he realised I was absolutely head over heels in love with him. I really like it when we do talk and hang out and stuff and I'll take any chance to try and show off infront of him and stuff. Anyway the problem is that I'm not sure what to do. Do I tell him I like him and risk him never talking to me again or just bottle up all my feelings...
Thanks

Tiggz
November 3rd, 2012, 11:36 PM
My advice to you is to tell him how you feel. its going to kill you inside if you never tell him and so youll be stuck with "what ifs" and what good is that going to do you? if he truly is your friend then he'll accept you and if he dosent like you in the same way then he'll tell you and your just going to have to roll with the punches of it buddy.

Magnus Bane
November 4th, 2012, 09:03 AM
the poster above is right... you need to express your feelings... it'll be fine he is your friend right?... anyway well keeping your feelings bottled away will kill you inside... you need to express them if he doesn't accept you let it go... let him go... i know it will be hard but i mean its the best you can do... and if he gives you crap ignore it... know if starts hitting you punch him in the nose... trust me i went through the same situation... that's how i dealt with it... best of luck!!!!!!!! :cool:

ILoveTaylor
November 4th, 2012, 09:21 AM
My advice to you is to tell him how you feel. its going to kill you inside if you never tell him and so youll be stuck with "what ifs" and what good is that going to do you? if he truly is your friend then he'll accept you and if he dosent like you in the same way then he'll tell you and your just going to have to roll with the punches of it buddy.

I completely agree. Just don't do anything tht may freak him out to much

Theyamyum
November 4th, 2012, 04:15 PM
Thing is he's straight