Dawn01
November 2nd, 2012, 11:04 PM
Really... I think I can totally call it emotional abuse!! :/
This is the same guy of my recent topics here on VT! HE IS A LUNATIC, but somehow, I still care about him and his mental health, and I wish I could help him :(
We used to be great friends, I felt protected when I was with him and we'd talk for hours! People used to think we were dating... I've always been attracted to him, but them I started to develop a huge crush on him.
In the begin of the year he came talking to me asking for a time... I was like "WTF, why? We are just friends!", and he said he just wanted to be a little far from me. We had A LOT of arguments, I though his other friend (that was once my friend too, but I ended the friendship because I discover he was lying about some stories he told me... Seriously, that guy still creeps the fuck of me, I THINK HE IS SOME KIND OF SOCIOPATH) was saying bad things about me, but he denied, he said he just wanted to organize things in his mind. It was a huge confusion, but I end up giving him time.
He started talking again in July of this year, I tried to hang out with him, but we couldn't because we were both busy. In August we started doing a course together. I was like we never had that arguments, everything was perfect again. My feelings for him started to grow like crazy, I would always flirt with him, and he looked like he was totally ok with it.
In setember 29th I just decided to act. When we were saying goodbye, I kissed his lips. He just kissed me back and we spent like 1 or 2 minutes kissing, we just stopped because someone called me. The kiss was good, but after it, things just started to get real INSANE.
First he told me that he couldn't correspond because he had other person (PS: he just said "person")... Really, I was like "WTF, YOU NEVER TOLD ME THIS!!", and I felt desolated because he cheated on somebody because of me! Them he just asked me to give him time, without saying much more. In the begining of this week I forced him to tell what was really going on, what he was trying to do, and he said that he was really with another person and that maybe we couldn't be friends anymore because it would up in tragedy :(:(:(:(:(
Since then I'm trying to talk to him about it, to make him change ideia about not being my friend anymore, I let a big message on his facebook chat but he hadn't been checking facebook lately. I just can't understand, it's like I've never really knew him!!
.:Two theories I have about his atitudes:.
1- He cheated on the other person and them he regret it, because he knows the other person likes him a lot... He blames me for this and he doesn't want it to happen again!
2 - Like I said here http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=156722 many people told me that they thought he was gay and I think that's something very possible, it does explain MANY of his atitudes! He could be insecure about it, like locked inside the closet, and he want to people to think he is straight, so that's why he kissed me. PS: His "psycho" friend is very gay, like VERY GAY!
WHAT THE FUCK ALL THIS MADNESS MEAN, IT JUST HAS NO SENSE AT ALL!! :cry: He is just fucking with my poor mind!! And I'm idiot enough to still care about him!!
What do you think? Do you think he is being abusive with me? Should I really be trying to save our friendship?
This is the same guy of my recent topics here on VT! HE IS A LUNATIC, but somehow, I still care about him and his mental health, and I wish I could help him :(
We used to be great friends, I felt protected when I was with him and we'd talk for hours! People used to think we were dating... I've always been attracted to him, but them I started to develop a huge crush on him.
In the begin of the year he came talking to me asking for a time... I was like "WTF, why? We are just friends!", and he said he just wanted to be a little far from me. We had A LOT of arguments, I though his other friend (that was once my friend too, but I ended the friendship because I discover he was lying about some stories he told me... Seriously, that guy still creeps the fuck of me, I THINK HE IS SOME KIND OF SOCIOPATH) was saying bad things about me, but he denied, he said he just wanted to organize things in his mind. It was a huge confusion, but I end up giving him time.
He started talking again in July of this year, I tried to hang out with him, but we couldn't because we were both busy. In August we started doing a course together. I was like we never had that arguments, everything was perfect again. My feelings for him started to grow like crazy, I would always flirt with him, and he looked like he was totally ok with it.
In setember 29th I just decided to act. When we were saying goodbye, I kissed his lips. He just kissed me back and we spent like 1 or 2 minutes kissing, we just stopped because someone called me. The kiss was good, but after it, things just started to get real INSANE.
First he told me that he couldn't correspond because he had other person (PS: he just said "person")... Really, I was like "WTF, YOU NEVER TOLD ME THIS!!", and I felt desolated because he cheated on somebody because of me! Them he just asked me to give him time, without saying much more. In the begining of this week I forced him to tell what was really going on, what he was trying to do, and he said that he was really with another person and that maybe we couldn't be friends anymore because it would up in tragedy :(:(:(:(:(
Since then I'm trying to talk to him about it, to make him change ideia about not being my friend anymore, I let a big message on his facebook chat but he hadn't been checking facebook lately. I just can't understand, it's like I've never really knew him!!
.:Two theories I have about his atitudes:.
1- He cheated on the other person and them he regret it, because he knows the other person likes him a lot... He blames me for this and he doesn't want it to happen again!
2 - Like I said here http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=156722 many people told me that they thought he was gay and I think that's something very possible, it does explain MANY of his atitudes! He could be insecure about it, like locked inside the closet, and he want to people to think he is straight, so that's why he kissed me. PS: His "psycho" friend is very gay, like VERY GAY!
WHAT THE FUCK ALL THIS MADNESS MEAN, IT JUST HAS NO SENSE AT ALL!! :cry: He is just fucking with my poor mind!! And I'm idiot enough to still care about him!!
What do you think? Do you think he is being abusive with me? Should I really be trying to save our friendship?