is this a sign

[ackmedsgirl666]

ive been thinking about my ex girlfriend lately
me and her were engaged and we promised to be together forever...
but i had to move away.. and we got split up and we didnt work out being long distance...
she moved on.... i think and now shes with this guy...
she lost her virginity to him and i am jealous.

what does this mean
why am i jealous when i have a boyfriend..... who i know i love...
am i still really a lesbian and im in hiding..
i used to be gay btw.

[Noirtier]

why am i jealous when i have a boyfriend..... who i know i love...

I've seen you around quite a bit, and I know you love your boyfriend. And you know this too. That right there is one of the big things that tells me you're not a lesbian still. Now, as for feeling jealous, you were with someone who you loved back then, and who meant a lot to you. Regardless of whether you've moved on or not, it's a fairly common thing to feel at least some jealousy when you see an ex with someone else, especially if they seem happier than when they were with you (whether they actually are or not.) Hun, I think you've been overthinking a lot lately--you've had a lot on your mind. Try and just take some time to relax, calm your mind, and push away all these worries and thoughts. Focus on your relationship with your boyfriend, who loves you, and bettering yourself. Don't look to the past, but to the future. Because you've helped a lot of people on here, and they're all here to support you as you work to better yourself, and I know that you will turn out to have a wonderful life. You're a great person, you just have some things to be worked on. Everyone does. We're all here for you to help you through them, but please try to take some time to relax.

[ackmedsgirl666]

thankss
im gonna look into some councelling... to find someone to talk to
try and rid some things off of my mind....
without someone to talk to everyything is just gonna keep building up...
and eventuallly ill break down...
and i love my boyfriend but there is alot of things i still have to tell him... or i just choose not to because im scared of his reactions

[ackmedslayer556]

dear look ik we havent had the best relaitionship but everyone has problems with there other halfs and idk how many times i need to tell u that u can tell me anything. im ALWAYS GOING TO BE HERE YOU. idk how many times iv said and proved that.

[Kacey]

I've seen you around quite a bit, and I know you love your boyfriend. And you know this too. That right there is one of the big things that tells me you're not a lesbian still. Now, as for feeling jealous, you were with someone who you loved back then, and who meant a lot to you. Regardless of whether you've moved on or not, it's a fairly common thing to feel at least some jealousy when you see an ex with someone else, especially if they seem happier than when they were with you (whether they actually are or not.) Hun, I think you've been overthinking a lot lately--you've had a lot on your mind. Try and just take some time to relax, calm your mind, and push away all these worries and thoughts. Focus on your relationship with your boyfriend, who loves you, and bettering yourself. Don't look to the past, but to the future. Because you've helped a lot of people on here, and they're all here to support you as you work to better yourself, and I know that you will turn out to have a wonderful life. You're a great person, you just have some things to be worked on. Everyone does. We're all here for you to help you through them, but please try to take some time to relax.


he hit it spot on if u ask me

[Jupiter]

There's always going to be regrets. In the end, you just have to trust yourself that you love him and that he loves you!