What to do?

[ArtistInNeed]

god, im in such a pickle right now! Okay, so i have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months now, but recently ive been starting to like this other boy. me and my bf fight alot, and its really stressful to keep fighting like we do. he has anger issues and has put one too many holes in my wall at home. idk wat to do. i really like this other boy, but then again..im afraid to break up with my bf. any advice? im only sixteen, i should be able to play the field..right?

[Serenity]

Indeed if you're unhappy with your bf you shouldn't at all feel obligated to stay with him, especially if you like someone more than him. If you think he'll hurt you if you break up with him, contact a counselor at your school or an adult you're close to. But yeah, at 16 you shouldn't be tied down to one person just because you happened to have been with him for over a year. Live you own life :daisy:

[byee]

Make that two! I agree completely with Valerie (as usual!). You are not obligated to anyone at 16, regardless of how long you've been seeing eachother, how they feel about you, or what they might do. You do have some sense of obligation to be kind and clear with him, though, after this much time with you he deserves that much.

If you're worried about what he'll do, that is not enough of a reaon to be a prisoner. Tell your folks, let them help you here.

[ArtistInNeed]

i broke up with him last night, he was really upset, crying and what not. Im dating the other guy i liked now. hes really nice :) im glad with my decision. thanks for the help :D

[Aηdy]

I'm glad you're happy :) Sorry I didn't reply to this thread with help before but you're happy so that's all that matters :D Have fun! :P

[Serenity]

Yayy I'm glad for you! :daisy:

[Jordo]

good job...... but poor guy

[mynameisjane]

yeah, good job! you dont want to be with someone, dont be with them.

and personally, i probably wouldnt stay with a guy who is often violent when he's mad at me.