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KenobiGirl93
November 2nd, 2012, 07:00 PM
My ex-boyfriend is so depressed, like he can't accept that anyone cares about him and stuff so that's why we broke up, basically.
We took some space and now we're spending more time together and we're getting close again.
We both deeply love each other but he doesn't think we should be together because I "deserve better" etc..so he doesn't want to get too close again even though he really wants to be with me. See, it's complicated.
So we layed together and took a little nap like we used to and it was great, just holding each other and sleeping.
He asked me a couple nights ago if I wanted to sleep with him (just sleeping) overnight and I was nervous because we are broken up. But we both want to be back together, he just thinks it's wrong.
I really want to stay with him all night and just lay with him.
We just care about each other and want to make the other happy.
Is that so bad?

ackmedsgirl666
November 2nd, 2012, 07:29 PM
nope not bad at all. you guys still share mutual feelings and you both know it and understand it. hes happy to have somebody there to make him happy and obviously you and him connect and he feels comfortable with you... mutual bonds feel wonderful. theyre a great bond to have with someone of the opposite sex.
good luck