Love Troubles

[Extreme586]

So today I was in a pretty good mood, had talks with people I hadn't talked to in forever and just let go of all the worry I had for a short amount of time at school. Its like I came out of a trance that I have been in for a long time, losing friendships from just plane ignoring everyone. Then I see a boy I really care for who was very nice to me and always made me laugh in a class we had together freshman year, even when I was dealing with myself back then. I'm a junior in high school now.

I have a few classes that are right next to his so I see him during passing periods for a brief few moments, even though we don't talk to each other. My heart aches for him every time I see or pass him in the hallways and my mind fly's to a bad place. I'm happy for those few seconds and then I remember I can never have him and it makes me so unsocial just because I become lost receding deeper and deeper into my myself.

So I started making a plan today to take different routes in school to avoid him completely. I love him very much but it hurts to see him, I figure avoiding him will eventually dull the pain so I can heal and hopefully recreate my social life and get some friends to have fun with. Does this sound like the right thing to do?

[Gazmo]

that could work, but maybe you could tell him? i dont think you should completely revolve your day around avoiding him becuase it could just make you feel worse when you do see him

[Harry Smith]

I had the exactly same problem. I know you probaly don't want to hear this but time is the only healer. What I found is that he will talk to you when he is ready, there is no point trying to rush it. I know it's hard seeing him everyday but just try and talk to some new people to hang around. Then over time you will not focus on him but you will still remember him. Hope this helps

[lovergirl22]

ok the same thing happend to me i hope it nevers happends again

[Luppy Lupan]

personally I think you should just relax and think to yourself, "is this my entire life?" yes you may love him but have you lived your entire life? well I certainly hope not, you have got years to go, you never know sometime in future you 2 could get together and be in love and live happily ever after, but where is fun in that? for a perfect world we need to have problems otherwise its not a true life, and in future you will more than definitely meet someone you love and live happy but all good needs some bad, so just look after yourself and enjoy life as it is, not as it is going to be.