need advice

[nice]

Ok so I'm bi but I'm not out to anyone yet and I want a boyfriend this winter because for some reason I want to cuddle with a guy this year. But I really don't want to come out till I turn 18 or move. And to top it all of my boyfriend would have o let me kiss one girl on the lips just once. I'm so confused please help thanks in advance xxx

-nice

[Harley Quinn]

You know, you don't actually need a boyfriend to get a cuddle from a guy. I know guys aren't as affectionate as girls but there are a few. You don't have to come out until you're completely ready and you've really thought about it. If you want to kiss a girl, just do it, you don't need permission and you definitely don't need to have a boyfriend to do so. I think what you need to do is sit down, find yourself and just go with the flow, that's all you need to do.

[nice]

You know, you don't actually need a boyfriend to get a cuddle from a guy. I know guys aren't as affectionate as guys but there are a few. You don't have to come out until you're completely ready and you've really thought about it. If you want to kiss a girl, just do it, you don't need permission and you definitely don't need to have a boyfriend to do so. I think what you need to do is sit down, find yourself and just go with the flow, that's all you need to do.

Not around where I live most of the guys are meat heads and I'm pretty sure I have found myself I think.

[Tiggz]

I say just kiss the girl first and then try to find your boyfriend and finding a partner whether its a guy or girl isnt something you just want to ruxh into so you can cuddle make sure its someone you can imgaine yourself being with.

[HunterSteele]

If you want to kiss a girl, just do it, you don't need permission

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[Magnus Bane]

they're right... you don't have to have someone to cuddle w/... you need to slow down... kiss a girl... and then find the right guy... that you know that you'll be together for a long time... if you don't do those things... your going to come undone... and then you wont be able to do anything for a while... calm down meet a guy go out w/ him a couple times... if you think your the perfect couple ... go out w/ him... if you don't do these things... you may not have confidence the next time...the first time you get w/ a guy it should be special... take him some where nice... then talk to him a couple time... arrange a couple dates... get to know him... be a little open w/ him... do that and you should be fine.. trust me that's how i found my BF... best of luck!!!!!:cool:

[MartyG]

and then find the right guy... that you know that you'll be together for a long time... calm down meet a guy go out w/ him a couple times...


You make it sound so easy. I have always found it to be very difficult to accomplish that.

Wanting a guy to cuddle with...and finding him.....not an easy thing for me.

[Dawn01]

Man, just don't label yourself! Calm down, if you want to kiss a girl just do it, if you'd like to date a boy, just try finding someone good to you.

And don't worry about the coming out thing, really. You just need to feel comfortable with yourself :)

[nice]

Man, just don't label yourself! Calm down, if you want to kiss a girl just do it, if you'd like to date a boy, just try finding someone good to you.

And don't worry about the coming out thing, really. You just need to feel comfortable with yourself :)

Thanks
And I have to have a label it's just how I am I like to know important things like that.

[Magnus Bane]

well you just have to knw how to do it... you have to be oput to the public...then you need to find someone else who is gay or bi... that when you ask them out... go on a few dates... get to know them... and then see wat they feel about you... if they feel the same way... that when you ask them out... it worked for me... well good luck marty G and hope you find someone decent.