Holiday Sharing

[swilson1601]

Hi,

I am going away wiv my family soon and I will have to share with my younger bro (I am 13, he is 9). Has neone got ne advice? I have started to get a few pubes and my dick is a little bit bigger than it was. What should I say to him if he sees me?

Thanks
Sam

[IAMWILL]

I wouldn't make any deal about it, just act normal. If he says or asks anything, just tell him "it happens when you get older." If your in the US then in 5th grade he'll take a class on puberty, so I wouldn't bother trying to explain stuff to him now.

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[Eric57]

I don't know why he would see anything, unless you guys are changing and getting completely naked in front of each other. But if that does happen, just explain to him that it's something that happens as you get older and when he gets older it will happen to him too.

[Sean4U]

Yea Eric, I agree, but you are brothers and you are the older brother, Sam, so if he asks anything, just tell him that his body will change with age as your body has....don't just shrug it off cause then he'll probably have to ask someone else and it is better if you are honest and up front with him...since he is 9 he probably actually might know that changes will happen, after all didn't you know that at 9 from all the talk guys do about silly stuff....don't make a big deal about it ...actually gone through this with my younger twin brothers and it was just a really normal conversation....

[showoffboy]

i would be honest with him and answer any questions he has. my older brother taught me alot. ur brother will appreciate it if ur straitforward and honest with him.

[Nellerin]

It is not that big of deal even if he sees. Just don't talk about it if he happens to see you. Although if he does ask you something like a lot of younger kids do then don't hesitate to answer as your brother will probably appreciate the advice and answers you provide him with.

[Anakin99]

You don't have to say anything other than that's what happens when you get older. my little bro asked me about my stuff before and that's what i told him

[Michael Anthony]

i share a room with my younger brother and he grew up seeing me naked when i change (i think it's stupid for brothers to change out of the room). it was actually good that he saw all the changes i was going through because then he knew what to expect.

[Mikedamaniak]

Just explain to him, it's not inappropriate for a 9 year old to know this and he can learn a lot from you.

[West Coast Sheriff]

It's simple. Just change in the restroom and that way he won't see you or have any questions. :D

[codyF13]

I have a lil bro too..we share room..he doesnt care about my dick at all. He doesnt make any comments. I think he is retarded or something. Any way, mine is not a lot different than his.

[FergusDunn]

Hi,

I am going away wiv my family soon and I will have to share with my younger bro (I am 13, he is 9). Has neone got ne advice? I have started to get a few pubes and my dick is a little bit bigger than it was. What should I say to him if he sees me?

Thanks
Sam

Make sure he does not see you - but anyways if he does he might not say or can you have a word with parents - seems a shame you are worried about this. Dont let it spoil your holiday -

[Aajj333]

Nothing because its not that big of a deal

[KrazyBoi95]

It's not a very big deal. Just talk to him and explain it to him I did the same thing with my younger brother when I was your age :P

[trystan10]

Well he is your brother so it couldnt hurt being straight foward with him

[xMr.CoolGuyx]

Be like. LOLOL, mines bigger!!!! And I got hair there to!!!!

[Luke91]

i share a room with my younger brother and he grew up seeing me naked when i change (i think it's stupid for brothers to change out of the room). it was actually good that he saw all the changes i was going through because then he knew what to expect.

I agree with Michael. Seeing is the best way to learn.

[mynameisJ]

Just act cool about it. You're brothers so there's no big deal really.

[Abyssal Echo]

Yea Eric, I agree, but you are brothers and you are the older brother, Sam, so if he asks anything, just tell him that his body will change with age as your body has....don't just shrug it off cause then he'll probably have to ask someone else and it is better if you are honest and up front with him...since he is 9 he probably actually might know that changes will happen, after all didn't you know that at 9 from all the talk guys do about silly stuff....don't make a big deal about it ...actually gone through this with my younger twin brothers and it was just a really normal conversation....

I agree with IAMWILL, Eric57 and sean4U

[ThatGuy69]

Don't lie to him just tell him the truth, just say that is what happens as you get older it is puberty, it is natural there is nothing to worry about he will go through it soon as well

[chicohunter]

he's your brother, just don't try to cover up for anything or make stuff up. Be honest, it can't hurt.

[schrojo]

just act like the older brother and tell it like it is and help him out if he needs it

[willrob]

if he asks about it just tell him that it happens when you get older and become a teenager. he is your bro, no reason you guys can't be open with each other right?

[SmartTee]

Just show it to him . He will understand it soon

[Fanta_Lover44]

Erm, wait till he comes to you and asks, awkward situation it could be but just don't lie to him, say your body changes as mentioned above.