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Cam16
October 31st, 2012, 12:14 PM
hey, guys, thanks for reading the post, im not sure if this is in the right category but whatever, anyways, so a bit of back ground on the problem, im a very dedicated multi-sport student athlete, i play football, baseball and lacrosse and are very good at all of them, anyways ive dedicated over 22 hours a week to training and the rest of the time ive spent studying to keep straight A's so i can stay on track to a DIV 1 scholarship for baseball. because of this i literally have no social life outside of my team mates, ive never been to a house party and ive never had a girlfriend. but lately ive been getting severe anxiety and insomnia, i talked to a doctor and he said i was suffering from extreme stress, and he suggested that i relax, live a little basically let loose, now the off season is coming up, and so is a 2 week winter break, and i want to start going to house parties and start "seeing" some girls ;) (not trying to be a dog or a player or anything just want to experience what ive been missing) unfortunately ive developed a reputation of never partying so ive stopped getting invites, and i wouldnt know how to act, so can someone tell me how to get invited to house parties and how to act when im there, how to get a girlfriend and how to act around her/wither her at school and around my friends, and how to expand my social circle. thanks so much for reading this very long post, i know its a pain in the ass! :P

Pierce
October 31st, 2012, 06:50 PM
Well first i would talk to a teamate that you know parties a lot ask him if there are any parties over the break cause your looking to party. I know that's probably not a lot of help but I hope its a start. As getting a girlfriend, not quite sure since im in the closet gay. Anyway good luck!

Tiggz
October 31st, 2012, 08:03 PM
Well first i would talk to a teamate that you know parties a lot ask him if there are any parties over the break cause your looking to party. I know that's probably not a lot of help but I hope its a start. As getting a girlfriend, not quite sure since im in the closet gay. Anyway good luck!

About the parties basically what he said just try to tag along with you team mates. And as far as how to act at one just be social and out going and youll do fine :). About getting a girlfriend through my experiences just find someone you really connect with and move on that note that you wont agree on everything but most things. Just keep your eyes open and be patient because rushing into a relationship is never a good idea.