A hug and some advice please?

[HandheldOutlaw]

Ok, for all who have read this thread, you already know. I'm pregnant.
I'm going to try to keep it. I guess.
but i have an eating disorder.
So... i don't know how to cope with that and the sudden changes in my body.

Also, foods to avoid? Foods that are okay?


Thank you all <3

[xXoblivionXx]

Try eating healthy foods. Make sure you eat fruits and vegetables, try to get carbs and protein as well. Basically, try to have a balanced diet. Because you have an eating disorder I would advise you to talk to your doctor or maybe a counselor to help you start eating healthy for you and your baby.

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

[HandheldOutlaw]

I'm 17. The baby wasn't planned. And it wasn't consensual.

I still haven't told my family and i went to the hospital the night before last for something completely unrelated. They made me take a test anyway and did not say anything to my family. They advised i did. :/ I'm scared.
So i haven't told my counselor or doctor yet.

[xXoblivionXx]

I'm sorry to hear that. :/ I'm sure everything will turn out okay.
Depending on how far along you are I would tell your parents. They will be able to give you support and care. Does the father know? If you are planning on keeping the baby. The best thing you can do for it is give it and you the best nutrients you can. I think your counselor would be a good place to start. They would be able to help you tell your parents and/or your doctor.

[HandheldOutlaw]

Thank you.
I don't really want to keep it...but th thought of adoption terrifies me because thats MY child. You never really know a person... anything can happen. And what of i get attached yknow?
And abortion .... idk. :/

[xXoblivionXx]

It's a really personal choice and a touchy topic. Once you talk to someone then you will be able to see your options and pick one that you think is best.


and here's your hug that I forgot to give you earlier :hug3:

[HandheldOutlaw]

At first is seemed to believe that if i ignored it it would go away. :/ not so much.


Thank you so much. :) *returns hug*

[xXoblivionXx]

well if you want or might abort the baby you only have a certain amount of time (3 months I think?) Not to rush you or anything but I think it would be best if you told an adult soon so you could sort this stuff out. I hope everything turns out okay :)

[West Coast Sheriff]

:hug:
You really should try to eat. Please. And if yu can't do it for yourself, then do it for your child.:D

[HandheldOutlaw]

It doesn't matter.
Im a fat lump
Getting an abortion
No point eating
No point doing anything.
I want to die.
srry. Unrelated :/