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Sir Suomi
October 29th, 2012, 05:57 PM
Normally I feel so happy and on top of the world, but now I'm just becoming more and more sad, or angry. I hate how I look, how I act, and how I am as a person, and the thing I hate the most is that I can't change how I am. Little things that normally would just make me a little upset can now put me in what seems like a black hole of sadness or anger. What's going on? :(

Φρανκομβριτ
October 29th, 2012, 06:47 PM
Sounds like you're suffering from some depression there mate! Definitely want to talk to a doctor or counsellor about that.

There are few people in this world who like everything about them. The important thing is the thing that bugs you the most: you cannot change it. We are all this way for a reason (I believe). You will have to learn to accept your appearance for what it is. I hate mine, but I can't change it. No sense in holding such anger towards it. Who you are as a person is something that YOU carve though. If you don't like who you are or who you've become, it's never too late to change.

I'd recommend you work with a psychologist or a counsellor at building your self worth.

Try and work on pointing out the things you do like about yourself. Even if it's little things. Another trick I use is trying not to actually verbalise my disgust. For instance, I feel overweight most of the time, but I've avoided recognising that thought or saying it so it's not an option for my mind to hate on. If that makes sense?

Sir Suomi
October 29th, 2012, 07:21 PM
Ok. I don't think I'm depressed, I think it's just some of the crap I've been through lately. But I've calmed down, and I think I'm over it.
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Φρανκομβριτ
October 29th, 2012, 08:39 PM
That's awesome! You may have just had a depressed moment (everyone gets them now and then, doesn't mean you suffer from depression).

I'm really glad to hear you're able to move past it. Great things are ahead.

Sir Suomi
October 30th, 2012, 06:08 PM
Thanks :)