Sexuality

[Jordzy]

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[dontfiguremeout]

Don't need to feel rush in labeling yourself! I would wait when puberty is almost over, or already over, an by then you will know your orientation. And honestly your at the part where you are confused, and don't be! Just do everything you would do, and try different stuff. I think trying out different stuff will make you realize what you like best, and what you don't like! So don't be afraid!

[DerBear]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

This would be better suited here.

[Gandalf]

Don't need to feel rush in labeling yourself! I would wait when puberty is almost over, or already over, an by then you will know your orientation. And honestly your at the part where you are confused, and don't be! Just do everything you would do, and try different stuff. I think trying out different stuff will make you realize what you like best, and what you don't like! So don't be afraid!

Firstly, I disagree. Some people, including myself need certainty's. Telling a person not to label themself when that is is excatly what they are trying to do is not helpful. Also, 'waiting until puberty is almost over' this would lead to all sorts of consequences down the road if a person still doesn't know. I mean, the idea is to find out sooner rather than later what sexuality you are and then the person concerned can follow a completely honest life without the fear of denial hanging over them.

Us teens need to know as individuals, where we stand socially and romantically. This is a normal desire and it annoy's the hell out of me when people go around saying not to do this or want this, when it isn't exactly anything we can change. It also has the positive effect of helping an individual understand themselves and what is fullfilling and healthy for themself.

Just my honest opinion and no offense is intended.


Back to the OP:

I think that since you have been with guy's and not enjoyed this you are probably not gay. You probably worked this out already but I admire the willingness to explore that region.

I think you are proably straight since you seem to enjoy heterosexual sex, and have no desire to be in a gay relationship.


Hope I helped. :)

[Lost in the Echo]

Based on what you said, i'd say you're straight/curious. Just about everyone gets curious during puberty because of hormones and shit, like you said. So yeah, you seem to be straight, a little curious though, but there's nothing wrong with that, a lot of teen boys who are straight experiment, it's just curiosity and hormones.

[Danny_boi 16]

I want to be with a girl (already had sex with a girl) and be a normal couple not a Bi person,

Well, first what is normal? Normality cannot defined, because... it doesn't exist. Humans are highly "subnormal" . Second, hormones in adolescence, go up and down. Find who you are, without all those cloud (hormones) in your way.

PS. Just for you to remember, so keep this in your mind. There is a huge difference between love and lust.

[TigerBoy]

Firstly, I disagree. Some people, including myself need certainty's. Telling a person not to label themself when that is is excatly what they are trying to do is not helpful.
Often what people want is not the same as what they need. As a principle I agree with RealGone in that that labels can be a problem because people can feel limited by them. Telling someone not to overly stress 'labels' is advice I agree with. At the same time I take your point that some sort of reference may help as part of the process of of learning to understand yourself.


Also, 'waiting until puberty is almost over' this would lead to all sorts of consequences down the road if a person still doesn't know. I mean, the idea is to find out sooner rather than later what sexuality you are and then the person concerned can follow a completely honest life without the fear of denial hanging over them.
Yeah I agree. Having come out at 14 I feel as though I've been able to move on to understand myself in other ways. If I was still unsure I would still rather have 'come out' as not entirely straight so that I could explore and experiment without feeling like I had to hide.

[broken111]

i dont know what all to say but i can say puberty can be a reason for the misunderstanding

[Steve Hala]

You sound like your just curious

[Hermes96]

bi about 80% guys 20% girls