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jerrod1996
October 28th, 2012, 08:57 PM
I want to ask a girl out but i am scared to because i have been rejected by so many. How do i ask her out?
RockObsessed
October 28th, 2012, 10:47 PM
'Kay, so not sure if my advice is going to be the best, but I'll give it a shot.
You see, everybody is afraid of rejection. But if no one ever got over the fear of rejection, then we wouldn't go anywhere in our lives...Well, relationship-wise. For example, I told my crush that I liked him, and the next day, he asked me out! I was afraid of rejection, but I got over it. And that's exactly what you need to do if you really like this girl.
But of course, if you barely know her, then no, you shouldn't ask her out. Ask yourself these questions: Is she showing signs that she likes you? Does it seem like that she's flirting with you sometimes? And remember, if she's says no, then just continue to be friends and don't let it get awkward. If she says 'I'll think about it", don't pressure her. Give her time to answer!
Hope this helped at least a little bit! :)
jerrod1996
October 29th, 2012, 11:24 PM
'Kay, so not sure if my advice is going to be the best, but I'll give it a shot.
You see, everybody is afraid of rejection. But if no one ever got over the fear of rejection, then we wouldn't go anywhere in our lives...Well, relationship-wise. For example, I told my crush that I liked him, and the next day, he asked me out! I was afraid of rejection, but I got over it. And that's exactly what you need to do if you really like this girl.
But of course, if you barely know her, then no, you shouldn't ask her out. Ask yourself these questions: Is she showing signs that she likes you? Does it seem like that she's flirting with you sometimes? And remember, if she's says no, then just continue to be friends and don't let it get awkward. If she says 'I'll think about it", don't pressure her. Give her time to answer!
Hope this helped at least a little bit! :)
THANKS im gonna try this at school tommarrow :):yeah:
PandaLeah
October 30th, 2012, 12:11 AM
Honestly what's the worse thing that can happen, she says no...
Go ask her out! even if it's just for coffee or handful of caramels!
I want to ask a girl out but i am scared to because i have been rejected by so many. How do i ask her out?
nice
October 30th, 2012, 04:25 AM
Honestly what's the worse thing that can happen, she says no...
Go ask her out! even if it's just for coffee or handful of caramels!
Sums it up pretty good if she says anything like hell no she is just a bitch.
jerrod1996
October 30th, 2012, 07:21 PM
Sums it up pretty good if she says anything like hell no she is just a bitch.
Well i went to ask her...And of course i work up the courage then boom shes home sick :( ill try again
nice
October 30th, 2012, 07:36 PM
Well i went to ask her...And of course i work up the courage then boom shes home sick :( ill try again
Good luck :)
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