Need advice

[Tiggz]

Ok so this past weekend i was out at a school theatre trip perfoming and competeing with other schools. I met this girl there and we hung out all day Saturday and before she left we kissed and it was great. On the other side i met a guy the same night at a dance we had and after going to his hotel room (we were all staying into a hotel) and talking to him and twerking on him (to teach him how to twerk) and just flirting he says he thinks he wants to kiss me and i told him i wanted to kiss him too and so we did and again it was amazing. so I belive i've came to an answer to about my sexuality which ive been struggling with for a while. Now that i think i can fully Identify myself as a Bisexual i need help as to how to tell my mom and family. I find it easier to tell my friends but not my family so could someone help me out?

[ImCoolBeans]

I found it easiest to be blunt and straight forward when I told my mom that I was gay. Beating around the bush just leaves you more room to go off topic and allows you to fail to accomplish what you had intended to.

I wrote This thread (click me) (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134627) about coming out, which provides some tips and things to keep in mind when prepare to do it or while doing it. It's filled with peoples' personal accounts and experiences with coming out and many of them detail how they went about doing it. I think looking it over can be beneficial to you.

The most important thing to remember about coming out is that nobody is making you do it. Go at your own pace -- whether it be quick or not. If you feel like you are not ready, wait until you are absolutely sure. Best of luck!

[Tiggz]

Thanks alot I guess im justreally nervous cause i dont want to make things awkaward in my house and all

[Halcyon]

Try to work out which one of your family is the most trustworthy before coming out entirely; you might want to tell them privately first so they can give you support when you're ready to tell the others. For me it was my mum, but it might be siblings for you, do whatever feels best.

When you do tell them, sit them down somewhere they can't make a scene (i.e. at home, not in public) and just say it. I found it was best not to ramble on for too long, just say "I'm bisexual, I'm going to stay this way." and then let them know they can ask you questions or whatever. Hopefully they'll accept it, but if not don't back down and say it could just be a phase. They'll only get used to it and accept it if they know you're dead certain.

Good luck! :)

[Tiggz]

Thanks this is all really helpfull

[Pierce]

I think you should wait a while before comign out since you just discovered who you were. I honestly belioeve you might go througgh a few more instances that will change your view on your sexual orientation. So my advice is don't come out yet unless your sure because the only thing worse than coming out is coming out and then changing and having to tell everybody again.

[Tiggz]

I think you should wait a while before comign out since you just discovered who you were. I honestly belioeve you might go througgh a few more instances that will change your view on your sexual orientation. So my advice is don't come out yet unless your sure because the only thing worse than coming out is coming out and then changing and having to tell everybody again.

Thanks your right and I realized that after already telling a few of my friends. I think i am going to wait a while just to be completley sure about it thanks for the advice :)