Question for bi girls here

[ItsChelsea]

Ok, so recently I've started to find girls really attractive. I've messed around with a couple of my friends at sleepovers, but it always started out as kind of a playful group thing. So now I would like to explore more, and really would like to experience being with a girl and not in a group. I'm pretty sure I'm bi, I mean girls get me really excited just looking at a cutie, girl girl porn gets me super turned on, and when I mbate I fantasize about girls. The problem is, I don't know how to even approach a girl. I mean, if I approach a guy and get turned down, it's not that big of a deal, guys and girls get together all the time. But with a girl, like if I don't know FOR SURE she's into it, she could freak out and call me gay and cause a whole big scene, and I don't want that. I know I'm not gay, since I do really like boys too, and like doing stuff with them, but I really want to take the next step. Any suggestions how I can do that without totally embarassing myself?

[ItsChelsea]

Anybody?

[justinglives]

Truth or dare is always a good start for boys...

[ReginaGeorge]

Well, you said you've done things with your friends. If you're comfortable asking and think they'd be down for it, you can ask one of those friends. You know they're open to girls, and they might be as curious as you. It's worth a shot. :)

You could just bring up when you did stuff in a conversation, private or with the other friends who had done stuff, and tell them you're curious for a bit more. Also slip in that you trust them enough to ask/tell them. It could help them take you more seriously, because not to be a downer, but there's a chance they could laugh it off, not because they think it's stupid, but because they might think you're joking.

If you do ask, just be prepared for a yes and a no. Yes is awesome, no isn't the end of the world, just means you can find another girl to experiment with.

[princess09]

start by playing 21 questions but make them personal ask if she is a lesbian and if she is then you know she will be into it. slowly get in to the convo of kissing or mbating or even sex and then lean in to kiss her, make sure you know that you can trust hr because your right if she does freak it will get around its happened to me rumors about me being a lesbian and now that i think im bi im too scared to come out to everyone because when the rumors started i denied it

[StoppingTime]

Do not ask how to get others to do sexual things with you; that's not why we're here. :locked: