How can I save the friendship? Is it even possible?

[Dawn01]

Ok, you know the friend that I told in the other topic that I was in love with? EVERYTHING GOT WRONG :( :( :(

He said that he is with another person and that we can't be friends anymore, because our friendship is doing bad for we both, confusing we both. I said to him before that we couldn't stay in that craziness of "oh, are we friends or lovers?" because it was going to damage our friendship in the end, and he said that I meant that I don't want to be friends with him anymore... But I was just trying to save our friendship from death!

What can I do now? I can move on, but can I save our friendship or it's dead forever?

[nice]

Sorry love but i think your friendship is dead especially if he is not even trying to save it. It's a lost cause it sounds like.

[Dawn01]

Sorry love but i think your friendship is dead especially if he is not even trying to save it. It's a lost cause it sounds like.

Maybe, but since I have an second option to date and I'm probably going to give this second option a chance now, maybe we can be friends since we probabily will have our own partners ;p

But really, why is this guy can't act normal? He makes me so sad :(

[nice]

I have no idea I wonder that too. He really needs to grow up in my opinion or at least give you a chance.

[Dawn01]

I have no idea I wonder that too. He really needs to grow up in my opinion or at least give you a chance.

I feel kind of free now since he was doing me real bad :S He was not a good person to date with, he is too unstable, too bipolar, and he was sometimes almost rude to me! And I was actually a bit suspicious that he was gay, A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME THAT, I EVEN GOT AN ANONYMOUS MESSAGE ONCE ON TUMBLR SAYING THAT HE WAS GAY!! :what:

I don't know... I'll try to move on from him, but too bad that I lost his friendship too :(

[nice]

I know it hurts now but you'll get over it :) your a strong girl

[Dawn01]

The problem is this strong nausea that I'm feeling after the whole confusion... WTF?!

Man, that's just too unfair :(

[Dawn01]

Holy, he said he didn't wanted things to end up like this! I DIDN'T WANT EITHER, REALLY, I WHY END UP LIKE THIS IF NO ONE WANTS, I THINK THERE'S STILL HOPE!

But what can I do? I'm having problems in choosing things to say :(

[nice]

I think this time you should just let him do the talking and tell you how he feels so you can hear his side of the story.

[Dawn01]

I think this time you should just let him do the talking and tell you how he feels so you can hear his side of the story.

I hope that he will be nice enough to talk to me about it some day... I let a message on facebook saying that I insisted because I wanted to move on from him, but I didn't know what was going on, if he wanted to give me a chance or whatever... I just couldn't be with him that way!!

Losing the friendship was the last thing I ever wanted, but if he thinks that it can't be saved, it's such a huge deception :(

[nice]

I know how you feel love you just have to walk with your head held high. Maybe one day he will want to be friends again but until then it was his loss not yours :)

[Dawn01]

I think I made him actually cheat on someone... Everything is just so weird, it has no sense :/ But I think that's why he said we can't be friends anymore '-' Is it my fault? I didn't know he had another person!