Log in

View Full Version : I'm confused plz help!


xStar64
October 28th, 2012, 11:56 AM
O.k so there's this girl and we have been best friends since Kindergarten. We both really like each other but we are shy. Everyone keeps telling us to go out and we are both nervous. Can you plz give some tips?
:pop: Thanks

Stryker125
October 28th, 2012, 12:24 PM
Just go for it man. I'm shy too, so I know it can be hard, but you just gotta put yourself out there. You can do it, I believe in you :)

dontfiguremeout
October 28th, 2012, 07:50 PM
Hmm, well how bout you ask her out when your not in pressure at all! Once you guys are kinda alone, then ask her out on a date! And no need to be nervous! Just be yourselves, and the date will be just fine!

pdidyking
October 29th, 2012, 01:31 AM
1. Make sure you LOVE her before you go out with her. Don't go out with her because yours friend tell you to. Also you'll know when you'll love her cause you'll feel it :-) .

2. You both are aware that you like each other. Talk to her about it. See if a deeper relationship is an option.

3. Things take time to adjust. The first few days or even weeks might seem awkward but it just take time. New things are happening.

4. Just be happy!

GrantJames
October 30th, 2012, 05:37 AM
I used to be shy and it sucked. Never asked a girl out until i came out my shell. Best thing to do is just tell her how you feel about her. If she knows how you feel she will know what you want to happen. But only go out with her if its what you want. Don't do it because your friends think you should. Just don't dive into it. Tell eachother how you feel and slowly get closer. If you dive in and Start going out and doing stuff it might wreck your friendship and you don't want that.

Good luck bro :)