My relationship has no sense :/

[Dawn01]

Really, I don't know if that's because we are very confused, I just don't know what's going on between me and my friend! We kissed, then we had some arguments, and then we are giving time now, but everytime I see him, we act like lovers, I don't know how to explain! It really looks like he likes me back but for some reason, he shouldn't be with me, I don't know, but there is sure some kind of attraction going on! And our kiss was really passionate, but then we got so crazy, I don't know what to expect, I don't know what to do with him, I don't wanna lose his friendship, but I feel like being friends is not enough :(

I think most part of the confusion is beacuse he still like his ex gf, but she has another boyfriend now and seem to be really happier with him, plus, they broke up an year ago, so it would be crazy if he still want her! But since people told me that's why he can't be with me, I belive.

What should I say to him? What should I do with him?! :confused:

[FreeFall]

Sounds like potential friends with benefits but you want more where as he's...weird.

You know what you need to say.

"Hey. You know I like you, you know I want you. But what do you want? Where are we? What are we? Am I wasting my time with any of this, being friends, being friendzoned, being your kissing buddy? I'm stuck, and confused, and I can't do this anymore unless you help me figure out, help us, find where we are in everything."
Something like that.

You don't want to lose the friendship, but if you keep up like this, you will. You'll grow to resent him, you'll be so hurt, so tired, so drained from being confused that it'll leak into the "friendship" and begin to eat away at it. He'll be so tired from you feeling the way you do, he'll sense it, it'll do the same for him.

You both need to figure out where the stance is, what the stance is and why.
If not, you'll lose each other.

[pdidyking]

I'm kinda going through this too. It's all confusing. :-(

[Dawn01]

Sounds like potential friends with benefits but you want more where as he's...weird.

You know what you need to say.

"Hey. You know I like you, you know I want you. But what do you want? Where are we? What are we? Am I wasting my time with any of this, being friends, being friendzoned, being your kissing buddy? I'm stuck, and confused, and I can't do this anymore unless you help me figure out, help us, find where we are in everything."
Something like that.

You don't want to lose the friendship, but if you keep up like this, you will. You'll grow to resent him, you'll be so hurt, so tired, so drained from being confused that it'll leak into the "friendship" and begin to eat away at it. He'll be so tired from you feeling the way you do, he'll sense it, it'll do the same for him.

You both need to figure out where the stance is, what the stance is and why.
If not, you'll lose each other.

We only kissed once, and then he said that he can't be with me because it would be unfair to me because he likes other person (his ex?)... But then he told me to give him time and I don't know what the fuck does it means! I don't know what are his intentions :confused: (he told be that after november 4th, when we are both going to do an important exam to go to the university, we were going to talk again about it, but why the fuck he is acting like this, really? If he doesn't like me, why he asked for a time?)

It just can't be nothing!! Something is really weird about all this story!

And yeah, I do think I can totally lose his friendship because of this situation :(



PS: Yesterday I sent him a text saying "How we are going to see each other now that the course is almost over? I came today because I wanted to talk to you"

His reply "I don't know... We are going to think about it. Good afternoon :D"

WHAT. THE. FUCK. ??!!

I just sent him a text "Man, if we continue like this, it will came to a point where I'll be so angry that I won't want to be your friend anymore! What's really going on? Why you told me to give you time?!"

[Dawn01]

It's the end guys, he said that he is with another person and he can't be with me because of that, and that maybe we can't even be friends :/

[nice]

I'm sorry that must be very hard for you. :hug: there are plenty of other great guys out there for you so don't give up on finding someone. :)

[Dawn01]

I'm sorry that must be very hard for you. :hug: there are plenty of other great guys out there for you so don't give up on finding someone. :)

I threw up when I saw his message on facebook saying this :( It's my fault, I made him go crazy and confused, and then I should respect him now. I sent a message trying to save the friendship at least, because that's just too sad :blue:

[nice]

That was so rude of him he didn't have to post that on Facebook for everyone to see that was a bit h move (pardon the language) if he did that to you you shouldn't even try to save the friendship just let him go you're better off without him.

[Dawn01]

That was so rude of him he didn't have to post that on Facebook for everyone to see that was a bit h move (pardon the language) if he did that to you you shouldn't even try to save the friendship just let him go you're better off without him.

No, he said that on the facebook chat! I feel like that's all my fault, but how could I know?!

He said it was better if we stop being friends before it end up in a tragedy (?), I just said what Free Fall told me to say, and here I am, fucked :(

[nice]

It wasn't her fault she honesty thought that would help you but he still shouldn't not want to be friends with you just because you like him that's stupid as fuck.

I've had people who knew I liked them and we are still friends some of them are really close to me too.

[Dawn01]

It wasn't her fault she honesty thought that would help you but he still shouldn't not want to be friends with you just because you like him that's stupid as fuck.

I've had people who knew I liked them and we are still friends some of them are really close to me too.

Our frienship was always a bit unstable, with lots of arguments and confusions... And it wasn't a pure friendship at all, we always had some attraction going on! I said to him that we couldn't continue like that because it was auto destructive, but then he said that I said that I couldn't be friends with him... What? I didn't mean that :(

Wait, I'll make a topic about it... :/

[nice]

Ok because this is really confusing.

[Dawn01]

Ok because this is really confusing.

Check the other topic I did, I'm desolated, I didn't want to lose him like a friend too :(