I'm tall and she's short

[Tommy123]

Need advice, there is a girl I like who is something like 4'6" and I'm 5'10". She's also Unitarian and I'm Catholic and I'm afraid a religious argument will break out. Gimme some advice please. I mean, we are good friends but still, I'm wondering.

[Mirage]

Well just be lucky she isn't the one that's 5'10" :)
That would be awkward. But since you're the taller one I think it would be fine. Also about the religion, well just don't talk about religion. If she starts it just tell her you don't want to sacrifice the relationship and that you shouldn't discuss religion.

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Well just be lucky she isn't the one that's 5'10" :)
That would be awkward. But since you're the taller one I think it would be fine. Also about the religion, well just don't talk about religion. If she starts it just tell her you don't want to sacrifice the relationship and that you shouldn't discuss religion.

Cant really say it any better haha, but as the religion part... Yes do be careful, it can tear a relationship apart and really if your an Atheist and shes a extremly religious Catholic for example, it shouldnt matter, what should matter is you two actually like each other and get along because of who you are not what you feel about a higher being.

[Tommy123]

Thank you all for the input. I might ask her out this week!
(MIGHT)

[RaXoR]

Dude height doesn't matter, my gf is 5'4" +/- and I'm 5'11" +/-. it doesn't make a difference and religion is nothing to take seriously when it comes to attraction and maybe what could be feelings... go for it.

[Mike753]

Religion seems to be a b**ch in everything. But regardless, I'd rather have a shorter girlfriend than me, that's about right in my opinion :P Nirvana's post sums it up, there's no way to say it better.

what should matter is you two actually like each other and get along because of who you are not what you feel about a higher being.

[dingo006]

Height thing doesnt matter, im 5'11 and ive almost always dated shorter girls. Slouch sometimes and let her snuggle in.


The religion thing can be a mine field. Especially if her parents are super religious. I had a relationship once almost break up over a hail mary joke with my baptist girlfriend. just remember to talk about everything and not be afraid to say you are sorry or wrong or that you dont want her to change for you.

[ayelove100]

The height doesnt matter but the religious thing might. Dont argue back on religion with her and tell her u dont wanna talk about it......

[LitBlackRose]

Ok I no 2 people in the marching band I'm in. She's 4'8" and the guys like 6'2" she's a year older than him the guy I thinks Jewish and the girls christain . They are the best cutesy and most perfect couple I have ever seen . They plan on getting married... If they can make it work so can you!! ^-^ height is not a factor nor is religion you should tell her your feelings

[EastBound]

Like most people have stated, the height thing shouldn't really matter.
As for the religion part. Perhaps just agree to disagree. I'm Muslim but my last 3 girlfriends have been Catholic.

[DerBear]

You really don't need to talk about religion. However if it does come up then try and avoid the subject or attempt to have a mature conversation on the subject. Although if the relationship does take off don't you think religion might get in the way in later life? Not trying to down you or anything but it is something you need to consider.

Lastly, Don't worry height should not mean anything in a relationship :)

[Bluto600]

Need advice, there is a girl I like who is something like 4'6" and I'm 5'10". She's also Unitarian and I'm Catholic and I'm afraid a religious argument will break out. Gimme some advice please. I mean, we are good friends but still, I'm wondering.

My first girlfriend which was about a year ago was 4'10 and I was 5'9 so in my opinion, height does not matter.
Now for the religion part, she was Buddhism and I was Catholic, just try to avoid having talks about religions with the girl if a relationship happens. If you guys talk about religion, talk about it maturely.

[RCT109]

height does not matter and neither should religion

dont worry about it

you said you're Catholic right. well u know that shes there for a reason

[LouBerry]

It depends on how religious you both are. If you both feel strongly about what you believe, it will make fights and I don't see how you could get past that.

[iSwim]

My girlfriend is 5'2 and I'm 5'11 there is a sizeable height difference. Yes it can be frustrating at times but if you really love her you'll learn to love it and the little things that you can do with it. Sometimes it can be fun being so much taller the teasing of the kisses when she can' reach my mouth when she wants to give me a little in peck, when i steal the hat she's wearing, or when I lift her up to kiss her, or hug her, or just plain old lift her up to hold her. My and my famiy are Catholic because we're Filipino and my girlfriend's family is die hard Baptists but we get along just fine, mainly because I explained how similar we are in religions. Anyway, me and my Girlfriend have been together for a little over a year and we're still in love and strong.

Hope this helped and good luck.