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ZZZ71
October 26th, 2012, 09:40 PM
Well first i don't know what my orientation really is... when i'm horny i wanna play with a guy or a girl but when im not horny i only want a girl... i want to try anal but i only want a penis... when im horny i fanatize about getting analed and sucking dick but if i'm not horny i hate to think about it... i want to try and expirement with a guy but idk who everyone will just make fun of me for being gay... or something..

LatinaVivit
October 26th, 2012, 09:45 PM
You've got plenty of time to figure it out..after all you're only a teenager. Besides, why do you need a label? Labels are for cereal boxes, not for people. Whatever you do, just be comfortable with yourself...don't do something because of external forces or influences. Only you can really know who you are.

Stryker125
October 26th, 2012, 09:58 PM
Try not to let it bother you too much. Like the other person said, you've got plenty of time to figure it out. There's no need to stress about it too much right now. Your hormones are going crazy right now, and it can really be confusing. But you like what you like, it's no big deal. As far as the experimentation thing goes, you'd be surprised how many guys want to do the same thing but are afraid to bring it up.

dawsonj
October 28th, 2012, 07:57 AM
I'll say from my on horny times that I do not have the same preferences when I am not turned on as when I am.
I don't now how it works or anything but I think it is normal to have sexual kinks that you may not normally be into otherwise.

It's all good brother, as long as nobody is getting hurt, have fun when your horny in whatever way you please!

Coolboi
October 28th, 2012, 08:07 AM
it's ok that's puberty at it best soon you will see what you like st8 bi or gay it's all ok just be your self an don't worry bout it so much try both then you will no

DerBear
October 28th, 2012, 09:04 AM
To help figure out your sexual orientation you must ask yourself "who am I physically and emotionally attracted too".

From what I read in your first post is that you seem to only want to be with a guy when you are turned on, this could pretty much mean its just your hormones as you're at that age where your hormones are going wild and it can be quite confusing which is perfectly normal for a teen.

You say, that you feel attracted to girls when your not horny, well this could be mean you are straight. However I don't know and I can't say. You have plenty of time to figure your sexuality out and you don't have to rush it.

However try to think about who you are both physically and emotionally attracted too and this might help answer your question on your sexuality.