can sumbody tell me

[huntersteele11]

me and my best friend are both 13 and we have another friend that lives on our street and he is 15 and the big kid wants to show us sum sex stuff if we promise not to tell and i need to ask if other kids who are boys do stuff like that. he told ivann and me that it will be fun and lots of kids do it but it sounded strange to me because it sounds like gay to me. am i right or is he right and do other kids do stff like he said.

[InfamousPanda]

what did he say?

[Lost in the Echo]

If he's talking about showing you and your friend porn, then yes that is common amongst teen guys.

[senior.2013]

If its porn, its pretty normal. But if you dont feel comfortable, dont do anything you dont want to. Its all you. If you do go and start to feel uncomfortable, leave.

[Stryker125]

If it's porn or masturbating, yeah that's pretty normal. But if you're not comfortable with it, just let him know. Don't do anything you don't want to do.

[MuscleTeen98]

Its totally normal:)

[ramgoat647]

As everyone has said... If its porn or masturbation, then that is completely normal. However this is contingent that he isn't too old. I would say about 17-18+ would be kinda of creepy. Unless you guys are close.

[Pierce]

Go there and find out what it is. No matter what it is, if you feel uncomfortable don't do it or go through with it.

[Aris]

He maybe means showing some porn , or jerking off with him . But dont think its impossible that he wants to do some blowjobs and handjobs with you.

[Duke Blue Devils]

I'm confused at what you're asking. :confused:

[sdude]

If you feel at all uncomfortable, don't let him pressure you into anything...he sounds like maybe he is into showing you stuff that might be better to try on your own together if you want, otherwise if he keeps pressing u, tell him you'll tell your parents.

[Sean4U]

You mentioned that this older guy asked you and your friend, if I understand it....discuss with your friend what the two of you think and what you will do if it is anything other than to watch porn....with two of you it will be safer if you decide you don't want to go any further or if you do......satisfy your OWN curiosity about the situation

[Thomas01]

If you don't feel so don't go. But make sure to tell your friend too. I'd say if one doesn't go then both shouldn't.

As the others have said only do what is comfortable. Jerking off together, talking, and porn watching with other guys is common amongst teen guys.

Just make sure you are comfortable and feel safe

[milestails]

just talk to him and tell him if uncomforable about it maybe he well understand u dont want to go

[huntersteele11]

i messed up and told it all wrong so sorry about that but i dont write stuff to great. he isnt some scary kid or sumthing he is our friend and he goes to our church and is a youth adviser to but he talks a lot about sex stuff when we are at home and said he can show us stuff that we will like but wont tell us what it is because he says he wants to show us if we wont tell so we dont know what to do to much thats all

[FameMonster]

i messed up and told it all wrong so sorry about that but i dont write stuff to great. he isnt some scary kid or sumthing he is our friend and he goes to our church and is a youth adviser to but he talks a lot about sex stuff when we are at home and said he can show us stuff that we will like but wont tell us what it is because he says he wants to show us if we wont tell so we dont know what to do to much thats all


If you know and trust him and as long as you and your friend are comfortable together, see what he wants to show you. If things get too weird or you both are uncomfortable with what he wants to do or show you, just Leave.

[Abyssal Echo]

If you know and trust him and as long as you and your friend are comfortable together, see what he wants to show you. If things get too weird or you both are uncomfortable with what he wants to do or show you, just Leave.

I agree with FameMonster

[NeonRaider]

If you trust he won't show you anything you don't want to see, try it. If you're not so sure if you trust him enough, ask him what he'll show you and then decide what YOU want.

[huntersteele11]

thank you for all the stuff every body said and me and ivann are going to talk about it becus we do trust tony pretty much

[Terra100]

Sounds kinda weird. Don't go for it (i see someone likes final fantasy i think thats a pick of hope:D)

[Jaseeee]

Yeah if it's pen- then that's common