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Jasey
October 26th, 2012, 05:15 PM
I think I'm just stupid considering the fact that nothing about me is normal, I guess I should start with the basics. I have been pretty depressed since I was around 8, I use to wish I could just die because I felt that my family was burdened by me, I also started keeping away from others to avoid getting hurt because I was bullied for a lisp I had as a kid (which I grew out of, that's a positive Atleast) sigh.....

In grade 7 i desperately tried to fill the emptiness I felt, I had a girl friend even though I was well aware I was gay which only made me feel worse. After that I started dating my best male friend, this lasted until grade 11, around 4.5 years.... Sigh....

In grade 9 we both got into really really hard drugs and i still felt empty, this was when I first tried to end my suffering, this just ended up in a hospital visit and a month of no school, to avoid the attention I played it off as an accident. After that incident I cleaned up and such which eased my life a lot more, the problem here is that my boyfriend was toxic and wouldn't clean up. Sigh....

Grade 11 I had a birthday party, which I broke my clean streak and had a few drinks, the problem is that the toxic boy friend tried to get me practically unconscious, he tried to rape me that night cause I wasn't comfortable going that far.... But my best friend Maty saved me there and took me to his house, where I puked for the next 16 hours. After that we broke up and i wanted nothing to do with him. He still harassed me even until this day, that's when life got too hard yet again and I drank and drank. I woke up on my bathroom floor yet again failing, that's when my episode of anorexia hit and I went from 168 pounds to 120 in no time. Unfortunately most of my friends wanted nothing to do with me. Sigh....

Grade 12 is when I decided to grow up, I did good in school, really good I stayed clean and I made friends who understood me, and were there for me. A week or 2 after my birthday in December last year, I went to a party without the intent of being an idiot, however my urges kicked in and i spent the Night blacked out puking and having everyone worry that I might die. I woke up ashamed and left before anyone could notice and went home. I also failed my first class that year and am currently returning for my 5th year....... Sigh.....

Current year! I have my bad days still and I regret a lot of.my past, but I've managed to help a few people turn their lives around or stop them from committing suicide, Im easily going to graduate and i got my first tattoo! I have so many great friends and such but I'm still always having bad days, I still barely eat and I cannot go to parties, necessary but worth it. Hopefully I continue improving and can go to University and Med school like I hope.

I really really just needed to get this all off my chest because no one knows about everything! I also wish i could find a way to be happy, to eat normally, and to find myself so i can find someone to appreciate me and my flaws.... I sighed a lot throughout those years, and I still do. So many regrets I wish i could correct but i refuse to let them drag me down, does anyone have any advice on what i still need to improve on, comments and.such are welcome, this is just my life x3...

Gazmo
October 27th, 2012, 04:03 AM
well, you've gone through a lot so can i just say your a very strong person to get though that. I hope things get better for you soon, but things will get better eventually. Your an amazing person so dont forget that, just keep your head high and message me if you want a chat, becuase i promise i will try my best to help in any way i can, even if all i can do is listen. Good luck, stay strong :)