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Athlete15
October 25th, 2012, 02:57 PM
How did you meet the person you're with right now? Also, were you in the closet when you met them, or were you completely out, or anywhere in between? I ask because as someone who is still in the closet to almost everyone, I have little to no opportunity to meet guys, and know of maybe 3 gay guys in my school, none of whom I'm interested in.
I guess this can be approached as a survey, but even a simple sentence or two explaining how things started up is appreciated!
Jasey
October 25th, 2012, 11:17 PM
In grade 7 I became best friends with the boy of which I wasted 4 years with, I am fully closeted and he was aswell we just hung out and one day we decided to step it up cause being togeather felt right. But in my opinion a big deal is the status of the people in a relationship, when he came out and I didn't want to on fear of others judgment it drove a huge spike between us
kye.
October 26th, 2012, 06:01 AM
This is an interesting topic ;) I don't have a partner, but just to fit in with the convo I'm still in the closet and I haven't found anyone. I'm bi btw.
TigerBoy
October 26th, 2012, 04:08 PM
I've known mine all my life as he is my best friends younger brother. I have been out for 3+ years before we became boyfriends, but he was in the closet (officially) until we kissed. We've always been very cuddly and affectionate, and over time I'd been getting more affectionate with him and he hadn't objected to things like me kissing him on the head or stroking his hair and cheek etc. It wasn't a huge jump for us to kiss, but it did freak him out for a week while he worked through the whole process of deciding to come out to his family and stuff.
Athlete15
October 26th, 2012, 04:31 PM
See I wish I had a story like that.. Happy to see that you are happy though!
Mathew0606
November 5th, 2012, 12:21 AM
I met him in school. He was a jock and I am still not the most popular person. Nobody would be my partner and I was disappointed but then he came up to me gave me his goofy smile and asked if I would be his partner. I'm not out yet neither is he but a kid from our glee club figured it out. He is gay to so he has a good gaydar.
But there is a circle of freinds we have that are all gay. It was accidentally formed we all knew each other my bf Brian has a gigantic treehouse and we all met there to play cards and it went from there.
I'm closest to him singing our fav duets are Spanish lullaby and so emotional. We are both macho him a little more than me only cause he plays foot ball. And we are both dominant although when we kiss we kind of have this tongue fight thing we do I sometimes win him mostly though. But I'm stronger I swim do soccer and if you say I'm feminine I will punch you
I was talking about a science project.
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