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Mitiss
October 25th, 2012, 07:53 AM
My name is chase and im 16 my girl is 13. We have been dating for about 7 months. Her parents love me. They also know that we have had sex and they arent mad or anythng. But recently we havr had sex and the condom busted right as i ejaculated. She is more then likely pregnant. I live in georgia. And im just worried that i will get into trouble. I havr already agreed to help and raise the baby and get a job. And i come from a well blessed family. I want to be able to stay with this girl and live a happy life with our baby.

gipsy danger
October 25th, 2012, 09:06 AM
are you actually want to go straight into parenthood? if you arent ready ask her if she is because if she says that she doesnt want it. you can always get a abortion. im sorry if im being blunt about it just think about it and talk to her about this. its just a suggestion

FreeFall
October 25th, 2012, 09:55 AM
So what's the question? You seem to have it figured out (:

You had an accident, you're going to own up to it. Even though she's 13, maternal instincts are strong and if they kick in right, she'll be acting remotely close to a grown-up mommy.
Condoms break, it sucks, but how are you sure she's completely pregnant? I'm very weird, I have to go to a doc's soon to have it checked out, but after sex my body seems to think every act of intercourse is definitely ending with child. I've experienced hysterical pregnancy (your body acts like your pregnant when you're not) more than once.
Watch out for your state laws though. You're the age of consent, she is not. Georgia as far as I know as has no close in age exceptions. So just watch and abide to keep your possible family safe.

Have your girlfriend take a test, more than one, if she hasn't already. If it's positive, get yourself a job as soon as you see that it is. Babies are not cheap, at all, so save up that money. She's 13, there's not much for her. You both could look into "cheaper" options like breast feeding and cloth diapering, just to save a little bit of money.

Don't rely on either of your parents to raise the baby, they may help out but don't chuck the kid at them. That's selfish, immature and irresponsible. You two created the baby, you two need to raise it and be its parents, your parents already had their kids.

Good luck!

abc_de
November 3rd, 2012, 05:26 AM
you sure she is pregnant?
not all intercourses leads to pregnancy