Physical Aspect of Attraction

[Blkbeltteen]

Whenever we discuss the physical aspect of attraction what are girls looking for. Now don't say the obvious like abs or muscles. I'm talking about like the definitive shape of a woman/man whenever we ogle them. I know girls like that v shaped waist on a guy but whenever it comes down to it do they like guys that are lanky but somewhat muscular. Or do they like the strong but bulky shape that typically screams out " I can mess anyone up with one punch so I can protect you".

Call out guys and girls. What screams to you on the opposite gender.

Example.

I like skinny women, but not the ones that I can break in half. So I typically go for women that are more curvy but not fat. Its the curves. I know some men like hour glass body. But to each is one.

[Apollo.]

I'm not to fussy really, I prefer a guy to have a flat stomach maybe with a slight bit of definition than a guy with really ripped up abs. I also like a flat hard chest with not much definition but no fat on it. I'm not crazy for really muscular guys but y'know I could deal with it if I had to:P. I like a guy to be a bit shorter than me or the same height and I'm only 5'9" so that's difficult to find. I do like a decent sized back on a guy though so they have a slight 'V' shape not to much though. Really anything goes though as long as they aren't really fat.

[Halcyon]

I'm not too fussed as long as a boy isn't obese. Of course, a great physique is a bonus but I'd settle for less! I love guys who have dark hair and blue eyes, that is just so damn cute! I also like it if they're taller than me but finding boys around my age who are taller than me is extremely difficult :P

[ChickenCasseroleYum]

WELL I'm totally gay but sometimes I'll see a picture of a girl on the internet and it'll be so pretty that my heart will skip a beat, and it's usually pale girls with really young cute pure innocent looking faces. But with guys I like them tall and muscular, maybe some stubble, square jaw, I'm not really picky..I like them to look really cool and masculine, dark skin :wub: guuuh

[riotroger]

^Agree with the above. I'm most definitely gay, but I do on occasion find some women extremely attractive. It has nothing to do with their boobs -.-, every time I do "stare" or whatever it's at their face, cause faces are probably my FAVORITE physical aspect...

If they have a nice ass too I might look at it... But I do the same with guys all the time, so it's not that unusual... Lol.

[riotroger]

As for guys... Well I'm generally "the guy" when it comes to attraction, so mostly go for guys that are my height or a couple inches shorter. I always like skinny guys, but preferably lean/have some muscle on them. I prefer clean shaven, and generally very little hair/hairless. And I don't really go for other white guys, just cause I love interracial couples and dating my own ethnic group is kinda boring :/

[Athlete15]

I like guys who are shorter then me, a little bit of a different take then everyone else. A nice body and dark skin never hurt, and my number one feature is definitely eyes. Its not even a certain color just having unique eyes is awesome.

Also, if you can rock long hair as a guy (not like ponytail length or anything) I love that

[nice]

Eyes eyes eyes I love girls and guys with cute eyes if you have cute eyes omg I will fall in love. On a girl I like a kinda skinny girl she doesn't have to be like really skinny just not obese. And hair I don't know what it is but girls with long hair.....Total turn on. And people with just simple beauty sometimes like Kirsten Stewart she just has something that just makes her simply beautiful.

I don't really know what I like in guys yet :P

[Jdawg91]

Studies have shown that women generally like men who are taller than them and men prefer women that are healthy looking.

[pdidyking]

I think any girl can have a nice body. For me, the face is the main attraction.

[CarlKing69]

I generally prefer tall skinny guys as I am like that myself. But personally I always put personality and emotion before appearance. But tall, skinny and pale is my thing. Haha.

[johndjdrummer12]

I definitely agree with Carlking69..being 6ft 4in tall at 17..someones height definitely plays a factor..:cool:

But also personality and similar interests are key for me..I'm pretty tall but I'm not lanky by any means..I definetly have an athletic build and I generally prefer skinny to moderate peeps..:p:p


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[Eric57]

For me, I like a guy with a flat stomach who has a defined body. I may be in the minority here, but abs and overly-toned bodies on men just don't do anything for me. I just like normal looking guys. I don't like overly muscular guys who you can tell work out 5-6 times a week. It's just too much for me. I also like a tall guy, preferably 5'10-6'0. I'm also a huge, huge, huge fan of facial hair/body hair. A nice stubble and some chest will really do it for me.

Like I said, I just like a normal looking guy. I don't like overly muscular guys who look like they could be a movie star or something.

[WithoutFear]

with girls, i like big eyes. really big eyes. and shorter than me. i like curves, so not an overly skinny woman, but one with some body fat. flat stomachs are nice, but im not overly bothered by it. also long hair and defined lips. pale skin, but not too white.
but honestly, i love girls who are witty, confident and even a bit bitchy, just because its funny :D
... and tongue rings...

with guys, speaking strictly on a physical level, i like abs, but not super-defined, just visible. same goes with pecks and arms. face-wise, i think boyish looks are great, and shortish hair does it for me.

[Magnus Bane]

well i'm definitely gay i like anyone (anyone whose a guy if there gay or bi) i dont care as long as their not to fat like 16 and 330 pounds. but i like guy with a little curve and/or flat stomachs.:) i like them a little shorter than me though.:cool:

[workingatperfect]

I don't like hard abs or muscular guys. Toned arms and chest or whatever is nice. I don't like skinny guys either, a little chubbiness is adorable and sexy. Not fat, but like, not all muscle and not all skin and bone. Kind of a broader shape. I'm short, so not too tall. I guess just a... idk, mature? Manly? looking body. I can't stand guys who are 16+ and still look 13 build wise. Facial hair is always nice, but not a must. A little bit of chest hair is kinda sexy. Dark hair and brown or green eyes.

In other words, my boyfriend. :P He pretty much has a perfect body in my eyes.

[Mathew0606]

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