Girl Trouble

[Lahdkshdk]

Ok there is this girl at school that i have known for a long time since like 3rd grade. We are reallly really good friends, like when she has trouble with her best friend she calls me to talk to, yeah we are tight. well i like her like her and want to ask her out but i am afriaid if she says no it will Wreck our friendship and i dont want that. Yea im sensitive not gay , No offence just sayin, PLS PLS PLS Help:confused:

[Serenity]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

I don't think just asking will mess up your friendship- you don't even have to ask her out just yet, just suggest it. Something along the lines of..."Have you ever considered what it might be like if we were more than friends?" or something like that. Perfectly harmless, and a good convo starter.

[Lahdkshdk]

still i dont think she thinks of me like that. AHH this is sooo confusing and if being prude as i am right now..... meaning that i havnt really kissed or made out with my Gfs...... i dont want it to get boring and nbreak up with me....Believe me its happend.And after the relation ship it took a while for us onot to be nervous or differnt towards each other.

[1234]

lol being in that situation sucks. I was in that like a year ago. I had like this one girl for like 6 years, but ofcourse, I was way too shy to go over and do anything about it. So yeah, I still to this day have not done, too much about it.

[Silverfist64]

Well this happened to me. I asked a girl out that i was "tight" with and she said not right now. But anyways i ended up(somehow) spilling out that i liked her ever since like 5th grade and i told her i was nervous to ask her because i thought it would ruin our friendship. She told me that it would never ruin our friendship over something so silly. So this may happen to you and you may have a chance with her.

[Lahdkshdk]

keep replying but thanks so far:)

[Lahdkshdk]

UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE

ok retarded me asked her without asking if she had a BF , couldve sworn she didnt, turns out it hapend today and she diddnt let it efect our relationship. I am very happy. maybe some other time.:)

[Serenity]

lol congrats then...I think?

[Silverfist64]

Haha. ALMOST the same thing happened. No full story but just PM me for story. Anyhows when i asked her out it turned out she didnt have a bf but got 1 like after 3 days oh well.

congrats on saving the friendship. And now you know that you have a chance with her and how she felt towards you.