Girls, What do you like more

[ViciousScheme]

Okay, I'm in 8th grade and I'm going out with someone (a girl) :) What makes a girl laugh and what would help me get more BEST FRIENDISH than I wanna do you because I really in no way want to imply that. I mean I know theres a line but were would women draw it between funny and gross. Im stumped because my friends talk about crazy stuff and im pretty sure the girls wouldnt know what half the stuff we babble about means. So the question, cut to the bone is, what is the line between discussing unny jokes and discussing gross jokes. Please help :)

[Lifesreject]

Well it depends dosent it. It always varies from girl to girl to what they like. Im probabley more tollerent with disgusting jokes and things than alot of my mates. I would just stick to normal jokes that arnt rude or likley to offend this girl. To make me laugh alot of the time me bf just tickles me or pokes me and says yeah beep beep. I no its random but that makes me laugh. :D

[Aηdy]

Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[mynameisjane]

when you're just starting a relationship, its best to be as gentlemanlike as possible. if she thinks that you think about sex a lot, she'll think thats what youre going to expect from her and that would make her uncomfortable. unless she brings it up, don't mention it. and if she does, try not to go on and on with the topic. when you've been going out for a long time and are more comfortable with eachother, if she starts talking about it casually, then you can start talking about it casually.

girls like talking about topics that you're both interested in. dont go on and on on a subject she doesnt care for. people like talking about themselves. ask her about herself. theres a million things to ask someone. ask about the future (what do you want to be when you grow up?), ask about the past (what were you like when you were a little kid?), ask about the present (who's your favorite teacher?), ask scenerio questions (if you could only eat one kind of food for the rest of your life, what kind would it be?) ask random questions (if you were a kitchen utensil, which kind would you be?) just be fun. the more fun conversations you have, the more friend-like you become, the more you can open up to eachother.

[Underground_Network]

Jane, as true as what you said is, it is true that it varies from girl to girl. Vicious, you should be aware of what the girl you are with is like. Is she a polite girl who would obviously get angry/upset at you if you said something vulgar/inappropriate, or is she a girl who finds sexual things funny. At 13/14, there are as many immature girls as there are immature guys. There will be girls who find what you and your friends find funny, funny as well, but there will be more mature girls who don't find what you find funny funny, and there will be girls who have no clue what you're saying. So just be aware of what the girl is like, just don't say anything too stupid, even if the girl is immature/finds what you find funny funny as well.

[mynameisjane]

that is true. i thought it was safe to just be polite but i forgot about of those kind of girls.

[BornActor]

in my school most of the time girls r making the gross jokes than guys are

[run4life129]

if u have an inside joke u can bring that up sometimes, but not too much that u seem desperate. u dont always have to make her laugh, making her smile is good too. compliment her and smile/wave in the hallways.

[Gumleaf]

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