Please Help urgent

[HandheldOutlaw]

I was raped by my ex and now I'm pregnant.
I don't know what to do.
I'm really scared. I want to scream. I want to cut.
I want to fucking die...I'm so sick of fighting

[SilentCutter]

first of all i'm sry to hear that. second, breathe. have you told anyone? that's your first priority. don't cut, don't kill yourself. just tell someone. you'll be ok.

[ackmedsgirl666]

TELL SOMEONE
DONT OUT YOUR LIFE IN DANGER YOUR CARRYING A CHILD.... DONT CAUSE HARM TO YOURSELF OR THE LITTLE LIFE FORM INSIDE OF YOU
CALL THE POLICE
TELL YOUR PARENTS
GET TO A DOCTOR ASAP!!!!!

who confirmed that you are pregnant|? did u take a test,,, see a doctor>
this is very serious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[kye.]

Don't panic, but do tell someone you really really trust and I'm very sorry to hear you were raped :( You're not alone *hugs*

[HandheldOutlaw]

I can't tell.my family they wont believe it was rape bc they think I'm a slut anyway :/

[SilentCutter]

if your family won't believe you then call the police! this shouldn't be something you keep to yourself.

[InfamousPanda]

You do not need parental concent to get an abortion. Some states all you need is the money to do it and they'll help you out, without contacting anyone else. Some states that's not possible, but you can still get an abortion without parental concent. You could call the clinic and tell them your a minor and you need a JUDICIAL BYPASS and they'll help you. I'm not sure if the contact parents when you do it that way. You'll have to look into it, cuz I'm not sure what's up in the sunny state of Florida. If there's any other questions just ask :) I hope I helped a little bit. I'm sorry your going through this /:

[HandheldOutlaw]

I took a lot of home tests (six) and all were positive.
Florida doesn't need consent but my family needs to be notified 48 hours in advance.
I feel like I'm breaking inside. The only people i have told are my two best friends.
I don't know what I'm going to do. I don't believe in abortion but there is no way I'm going to be able to keep it and there is no way i can have the baby without them eventually noticing.

Thank you all for your advice. <3

[InfamousPanda]

i wish i knew how to help /: bleh. Could you say that your aunt or uncle or brother or sister or what ever was your gardian? or would they look into that

[justinglives]

Look for a "rape crisis" or "sexual assault crisis center". They r independant and CAN AND WILL help you! Call "211" or whatever your statewide info line is. "Dial 0" and ask an operator for thenumber. You need to talk to someone who can walk this thru with you.

[HandheldOutlaw]

I live with my aunt and uncle. :/ They are my legitimate guardians. :/ I do think they'd look into it. I dont think i could live with myself if i got an abortion. :/ i guess I'm looking for more support than advice honestly. I'm scared and so ready to give up. IM not ready for this and i lose no matter what i decide. Thank you so much everyone

[InfamousPanda]

I'm real sorry D: *hugs*

[HandheldOutlaw]

Thank you so much. *hugsback*
kind of just want to curl up somewhere.
And....idk. :/ i don't feel safe.

Fuck i can't do this

[ackmedsgirl666]

it will all be ok dont worry girl
just find someone you trust and speak with them
let them know whats happening
but i do suggest that you call police and have your boyfriend charged with rape... its not something you should let him get away with.

[HandheldOutlaw]

I lose either way. No matter what i choose to do it won't be right.
i don't belong here at all this isn't right and I'm not okay and its not going to be okay. I want to die. I can't do this

[XxAlonexX]

I'm really sorry this happened to you, but you should contact someone, find an agency which will help you, there are plenty out there, most are free. Talk to someone about it and make the right decsion, for yourself and so the person who did it will get what he deserves. And the baby if you wish to keep it.

[Mikedamaniak]

If you don't believe in abortion, you can always set up for your kid to be with foster parents. Also make sure that the rapist ends up in court. He will then be punished appropriately and your parents will have to believe you.

[Stronk Serb]

From a guy's perspective: Do not cut, tell your parents, then the cops, about the baby... Try giving it for adoption, you can choose if you want to see it as it grows up or complete separation. I do not like abortions because the fact that it kills undeveloped life and can cause sterility, imagine that like killing a just born baby. I cannot and will not force you to not take the abortion, but I think it is not good. About your parents, if they do not believe you, screw them (no offence intended) and shame on them for not believing their child. If the rapist ends up in jail, he will have a hard time since rapists are not accepted by inmates and he will have hell in there. notify your parents and go to the cops, and schedule some therapy afterwards, to easen the pain... A bit of advice: Try making paper models of that guy and burn/cut/slash/tear them, might easen the pain (worked for me when I was heavily bullied, although these things are not the same). If it helps, try shouting at them things like: Burn/bleed you son of a b***h.

[PinkFloyd]

oh my god! i am so sorry this hapened! if you havent already you need to go tell the police and anyone you trust. do not commit suicide. everything wil be okay. As for the baby; I think you should handle that in a way that is comfortable for you. Again i am so deeply sorry this happened.

-Rob

[HandheldOutlaw]

Oh geez- forgot about this thread. :( thank you everyone.
I ended up and cutting anyway.still trying not to kill myself.
still really lost. :( and hurting a lot.
I am not sure if i am okay telling. :/

[Thunderstorm]

Talk to someone. talking does help. Vent. It helps. Live it out for your baby. You now have a child to tke care of, and as overwhelming as it is, you have to care for it. Life has its bad times, but you are put here for a reason, and you have to fulfill that reason.

[dusman77]

I'm new and found this thread. I'd just like to say I'm so, so sorry. Please stop cutting. It doesn't help, I promise. Listen to the good people on this site giving advice. They can do better than I ever could. I'll provide comfort through this. Don't give up. Keep this thread updated please so I know how it turns out. This sorta thing really makes me worry. good luck. :/

[HandheldOutlaw]

Definitely can't handle this guys....
Thank you.
:/ i know what im gonna do
im not gonna br able to stand mysrkd.
But i have to
ohgodohgod
i want to die

[Matt_2012]

Im really sorry this happened to you, please tell the police and take your ex to court! cant let him get away with this. Good luck. Again really sorry this happened to you. Also you can put your baby up for adoption if you don't believe in abortion like what everyone else said.

[HandheldOutlaw]

I have no choice.


& im scared



&i can't do this


&its notbworth it to tell