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KidNova
October 24th, 2012, 06:05 PM
Okay, so I am having sort of a problem with this girl. The story; Me and this girl(I will call her Destiny, it's her middle name) have the same class with each other, so of course we're going to eventually talk. We started talking the first day of school, and ever since then we have become so close together that it's obvious we trust each other. Now, I have another friend whom I've known since 7th grade, and him and Destiny have dated before, but it was only for a week then they broke up. The instant I met her, I liked her and wanted to be with her, and when they started dating it got me a little jealous and mad. Now that they're separated though, I am finding my self more attracted to her. She knows I like her, her Ex knows I like her, people know that I like her. Just today, during class, I asked her if she liked me. She told me to answer her question first, which was why I liked her. I said pretty much what any guy would say, "Because you're funny, and and pretty...". She denied that she was pretty, and I started to hold her and tell her that if she wasn't pretty, I wouldn't have a crush on her. After that I told her to answer my question, and she said that is was complicated. I asked why and she said that because her Ex is my best friend, and she doesn't want to date her Ex's best friend. I asked her if there was any chance that me and her could ever start dating, and found out it was a 50-50 chance. She admitted that she likes me, but doesn't know if she should date me because of her Ex being my best friend. Now here's what weird, my best friend is trying to get her to date me, which brings me to the question. I haven't asked her yet, we both like each other, we both have REALLY strong feelings for each other, yet we're unsure. Should I hurry up and ask her already, or should I wait a while? She said she has 6 guys that like her already, and yesterday one of them tried to hold her hand(She took it away though), so I know that if I wait too long, she might be taken away from me.

NiaBlew
October 24th, 2012, 06:11 PM
Well you like her, She likes you, and your best friends cool with it...Go For It Man.!! It would be sad if you let some other guy steal her away first.

KidNova
October 24th, 2012, 06:16 PM
I want to ask her, but she said there's a 50-50 chance it might happen, because she used to date my best friend. She doesn't like how it looks.

Athlete15
October 24th, 2012, 07:04 PM
There's a fifty percent chance that you guys would be together if you go for it.

There's a zero percent chance that you guys would be together if you don't go for it.

Seems like simple math to me. Good luck ;)