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Jasey
October 24th, 2012, 02:32 PM
Being a gay best friend sucks -.-, my best friend Is a female and we had a chat about a boy and how he is a womanizer, now they are dating and the entire reason is because if I had of been able to date her we wouldnt be here in this situation. And this has me very annoyed and upset because I'm in shock at how easy a friend can turn on you for being gay, we've been fighting all week and I'm at my wits end, so now I'm just gunna isolate myself at school. I Atleast can't stab myself in the back and through the heart. I wish I could just be what she needs. Or fix this but Im not good enough to do either....

kye.
October 24th, 2012, 04:17 PM
Being a gay best friend sucks -.-, my best friend Is a female and we had a chat about a boy and how he is a womanizer, now they are dating and the entire reason is because if I had of been able to date her we wouldnt be here in this situation. And this has me very annoyed and upset because I'm in shock at how easy a friend can turn on you for being gay, we've been fighting all week and I'm at my wits end, so now I'm just gunna isolate myself at school. I Atleast can't stab myself in the back and through the heart. I wish I could just be what she needs. Or fix this but Im not good enough to do either....

Jason, I just learned the hard way too with a similar story, but not so similar lol There was this one girl at school that was kind of always alone so I became friends with her. Later on I found out she had a 'best friend' but was never there for her. They became enemies, but forgave each other a year later (2011) I told her that she was messed up because her 'best friend' is not a true friend. A few weeks later they became enemies again and she came up to me -.- So it was like that until last week, I found out they were friends again and hanging out. I told her that I will not forgive her when she comes back to me, I'm done helping her. I don't talk to her as much, but I just want you to know that you can move on, as long as you don't hold grudges. It's not worth it, just find new friends but don't get so close to them and trust them, because in the end you only have yourself. This is one of my favorite quotes: "Trust is like a mirror; you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother f**kers reflection."