Alcohol Abuse, My Story

[Thepolice5291]

First off, if this is in wrong section please move it to appropriate section::
Here's some details beforehand:
- I have a girlfriend and have for 2 months
- My First time ever getting drunk
- I broke up with my ex in a massive facebook fight which got taken to the deputy
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My Story
On Wednesday night two weeks ago I was drinking as I thought my girlfriend and I were going to break up, My ex came on facebook and asked what I was doing tomorrow, i replied with "nothing", My ex then asked if I wanted to go drinking with her, Which to I replied with Yes (Stupid decision). anyway the next day, I met her at the school where we walked and I showed her to my cave, we then had a drinking contest and I drank too much, We kissed and made out and Did truth dare (biggest mistake), She then dared me to take my pants off, so i did, So here I was naked, She then replied with fuck me, I replied with "no, i have a gf", we then continued to drink to a point where I almost couldn't stand and most definitely couldnt walk in a straight line.
She was trying to get me "hard" but couldnt because I had had too Much alcohol. She then laid on top of me and started doing something, I gave her a condom just in case but she threw it out (I AM A Whore), Being not watched and able to remember everything, i knew I wasn't hard and I Knew that we hadn't done anything, Anyway 2 days later she replied "I think I'm pregnant, You need to buy me a pregnancy test", I am pretty sure she did this just so she could get money out of me, I now know that a drink is never friendly.
Anyway another point, Alcohol makes people do silly things, I haven't told my girlfriend even though i know she would understand (she is 15 and was pregnant at 14 but lost it, i was very supportive), She said she would always love me no matter what I did, But I Can't Break it to her, Her friends would hate me, I expect she would hate me, i don't want to break her heart. I Think i Abuse alcohol way too much, But here's the thing, I was invited to a part and things always happen at a party, I really hope that I control myself, I have told my girlfriend about the party and told her my phone will always be on, I am Admitting when I Drink I abuse alcohol and drink way too much, Does anyone know strategies to try and control this. and tell me the truth What I did was a Dog act wasn't it?

Can a Mod please change the title from Stupid W***e, My story to, Alcohol Abuse, My Story

[DerBear]

This would be better placed in Drugs and Meds as alcohol is also covered in that section and you'll get more related answers. Also I changed your title as you requested

[ImCoolBeans]

If you have a problem with alcohol the only way to get over it is to become sober. When you abuse alcohol you cannot use it in moderation, no matter how much you think you can. If you cannot control yourself and are aware of the fact that you are abusive with alcohol then your best bet is to not go to that party and to not get drunk. Everybody copes differently, but from experience I can say that using alcohol as a coping mechanism is not a good idea -- it is the start of a very lonely and long path which does not bring you anywhere you want to be. It's very easy to throw your life away and alcoholism is certainly a medium capable of doing that. There are no strategies to help you drink more responsibly because once you abuse alcohol you have broken the boundaries. You've let yourself go past the line which determines one from being able to drink in moderation and being an abusive user. Recovering alcoholics and addicts cannot use or drink because it only takes one to get back into the grind -- some people can use/drink responsibly and some simply cannot -- if you believe that you cannot then I think it's best that you do not.

As for your girlfriend, I think it's only fair that you let her know what happened. The truth generally always comes out in time, and it will hurt her a lot more when she finds out that you had been keeping this from her and lying about your fidelity.

[Thepolice5291]

I'll Try but it heals pain and my pain is too much

[youngwildfree]

Hey, I don't know what you're going through as I do not drink alcohol, Content Removed. Do not reuest offsite contact. -StoppingTime
Hang in there bro

[nocontrol]

Abusing alcohol, girlfriend pregnant at 14... what the F is going on there?

[Thepolice5291]

Abusing alcohol, girlfriend pregnant at 14... what the F is going on there?

She was pregnant to someone else at 14, She told me before we started dating
and well I guess its life you live and you die

[gipsy danger]

I'll Try but it heals pain and my pain is too much

aye mate to be honest i had a addiction to drinking and i know it may seem like it is healing the pain. but just stop. dont stop for a person. do it for yourself. look at it like this, the more you drink the more its gonna be harder to tell your gal. and your ex just tell her to buzz off and to be honest it takes more then 3 day to know if you are pregnant (a girl tried to take some of my money for a test) just forget about her. if you wanna be happy with your gal just talk to her and keep her to yourself. dont go messing with your ex. but mate just stay on the brightside and know that you dont have a girl pregnant. and just relax on the boozes

[Thepolice5291]

aye mate to be honest i had a addiction to drinking and i know it may seem like it is healing the pain. but just stop. dont stop for a person. do it for yourself. look at it like this, the more you drink the more its gonna be harder to tell your gal. and your ex just tell her to buzz off and to be honest it takes more then 3 day to know if you are pregnant (a girl tried to take some of my money for a test) just forget about her. if you wanna be happy with your gal just talk to her and keep her to yourself. dont go messing with your ex. but mate just stay on the brightside and know that you dont have a girl pregnant. and just relax on the boozes

Thanks, I already bought some But i will ease up a little

[gipsy danger]

Thanks, I already bought some But i will ease up a little

just appreciate the person you are with. and to be honest the guilt is going to haunt you but you learn to forget about it. if you wanna tell your girl tell her. but if you think it is going to make you lose her dont do it if you think it is worth it. just slow down on the drinking alright mate. later!

[justinglives]

Mike is 1000 percent right!

[Castle of Glass]

if you need with your alcohol problem, contact Alcoholics Anonymous. They help people get sober. I know this, not from personal experience, but i took a health class and we had 5 guest speakers from it.

link to Australian one: http://www.aa.org.au/

[Hungman]

this thread screams immaturity. Dont drink = problem solved.

[IVIodern]

>Posts about sex, even getting someone pregnant
*looks in the sig*
>"Straight + Virgin Virgin Pride!!!"

Sorry, just had to be said.