its all my fault

[that-god-chick]

i told one of my close friends what was happening awhile ago and how i have been thinking of suicide, i didnt want to tell her she just happen to be there when i had a meltdown at school. now she isint coping h erself and wont talk to me about any thing, i feel so bad i knew this would happen if i told her she has so much of her own stuff happening... iv failed as a friend and i dont know what to do to make things better for her again, iv tired to tell her that im not thinking about it anymore (thats a lie) but she wont believe me and i just dont know what to do...

[West Coast Sheriff]

I'm sorry and I know there really isn't much I can say to help other than let you know it isn't your fault. She chose to react the way she did and that had nothing to be blamed on you.

[that-god-chick]

I'm sorry and I know there really isn't much I can say to help other than let you know it isn't your fault. She chose to react the way she did and that had nothing to be blamed on you.

the youth worker i am seeing atm told me that i shouldnt of told my friend which is making me feel worse, i just feel bad because i know she has alot of her own shit going on and she really doesnt need mine on top of it. iv stop talking to her about my stuff now but i know she has alot going and im trying to help her but she wont let, i feel so bad... IT IS MY FAULT I JUST SHOULD OF KEPT IT TO MYSELF

[West Coast Sheriff]

You shouldn't be blaming yourself.

[that-god-chick]

You shouldn't be blaming yourself.

im the one who put it all on her when i knew she wouldnt be able to handle it because of the type of person she is... im such an idiot

[LoveMe_HateMe]

It's not your fault.

You needed someone to talk to, and you did end of story.

It's not your fault how she reacted, it's her decision on whether she left's you help her so don't think she isn't just because of what you told her. Just give her, and you, both sometime to clear your heads and let everything settle for a bit.

I'm sure everything will be fine :)

Although I'm not sure your youth worker should've said that it was your fault...

[that-god-chick]

It's not your fault.

You needed someone to talk to, and you did end of story.

It's not your fault how she reacted, it's her decision on whether she left's you help her so don't think she isn't just because of what you told her. Just give her, and you, both sometime to clear your heads and let everything settle for a bit.

I'm sure everything will be fine :)

Although I'm not sure your youth worker should've said that it was your fault...

i didnt want to tell her in the first place because i knew this would happen, she was just there when i had a massive meltdown... i feel like the crappest friend for putting it on her... she isint letting me help her because of what i told her she doesnt want to put her shit on me when she knows what im going though which is y i didnt want to tell her, i feel so helpless because i know she is hurting but she wont talk to anyone..

[LoveMe_HateMe]

If she won't talk to anyone then there is nothing you can do but stay by her side and let her know that your are there for her if/when she is ready to talk. That's all I can suggest, I know bow frustrating it can be, am in that boat at the moment, but you have to wait it out.

That's the only thing I can really suggest :/

[that-god-chick]

yeah thanks for the help/advice loveme hateme

[LoveMe_HateMe]

yeah thanks for the help/advice loveme hateme

You're mire than welcome, just hope I helped at least a little bit :)

[that-god-chick]

You're mire than welcome, just hope I helped at least a little bit :)

you did help abit <3

[LoveMe_HateMe]

you did help abit <3

Abit is better than nothing :) I hope everything works out for you and it gets sorted, if you ever want a chat drop me a message and I'll try and help, if not I'm a good listener :)

[Bcochran]

i know how you feel. i try to tell people whats going on with me and how i'm feeling but it doesnt seem to get me anywhere but awful looks and people thinking that i'm crazy and most of the time i dont know what to do

[that-god-chick]

yeah well now it sucks because my youth worker found out that iv thinking about suicide and now she is talking to me about putting me into hospital which is something i never wanted to happen... this is y i never tell people stuff