Hmm im scared, lol

[sufc_paul]

Delete this please :D

[Aηdy]

Well at 14 most would say you're too young for sex anyway. It's your choice, but you only lose your virginity once, and most people want that to happen with someone they love, not just some cheap shag.

[sufc_paul]

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[Patchy]

Well I dunno where u live if its america ur way under the legal age
if its uk ur still under it but not a long time to go.

its your choice Im just going 15 and i've never had proper sex so I'd just wait a while!

[sufc_paul]

what u mean proper sex? u just had oral? because i mean like im not scared to pleasure a girl im just scared to show me penis incase its small =[

[Aηdy]

Well if a girl thinks your penis is too small then don't have sex with her, and it will be best not to have a relationship with her because that means she is shallow.

sex since like 11 and like 50 percent of my year have had sex i reckon

Well everyone has wanted sex for a long time. And having sex just because everyone esle has is just giving into peer pressure.

[Maverick]

Do not have sex under any circumstance. Simply put you and this girl are too young and not mature enough to have sex. You are just kids yourself and having sex risks you becoming a father and having a baby at 14 or 15 years old. That is something you do not want to end up in.

When you are a young teenager you need to learn to have self-control and don't give in to urges to have sex. It can cost you an STD or child which are consequences that can affect you for the rest of your life.

She's obviously is in casual sex so you have no idea what kind of diseases she may unknowingly have so you'd be putting yourself in a major risk having sex with someone with multiple partners.

Underage sex is not worth it. Sure people in your year may have had it (but do note that people do lie), but at the end of the day, it's your life and you're responsible for your actions, not anyone else.

You should wait to have sex until you are older until you're with someone who loves you for who you are, not for the size of your equipment.

You are too young - do not have sex!

[sufc_paul]

kk thx

[Aηdy]

Great post Ant, I'd give rep if it would let me! But I have to share it around to others lol.

[Maverick]

Great post Ant, I'd give rep if it would let me! But I have to share it around to others lol.Thanks it's thought that counts. :P

[Underground_Network]

Yeah, you shouldn't have sex at 14 (although I really want it too and I'm 14), you should at least prove you're mature enough, and you should do it with a girl that you're in a relationship with and a girl you really like, the girl that may seem perfect to you. And you should've gone out with her with quite awhile before having sex. You have to prove to yourself that you're ready for it. Sex is a way of showing someone you really love them, and although the majority of society doesn't accept this, its true, you shouldn't have sex with someone unless you truly love them, you shouldn't just have sex for the sake of having sex. I mean, as I said I'm 14, and I know a girl who's 15 who I could have sex with, and although she really isn't that hot to begin with, I don't really like her, and its not like I'm going out with her, so, I'm going to wait for the perfect girl, no matter how long that takes before I have sex, I hope.. My friends with probably pressure me to lose my virginity before I turn 16, but that doesn't mean you should do the same. Wait for the perfect girl, and don't forget about the consequences that Ant brought up, by the way, Ant, hell, I'll give you rep, you deserve it. :)

[giraffe666]

i say go for it

[Underground_Network]

That wasn't very mature... But still, fuck that, I'm not mature either, and seriously its a bang bang world, hence "The Big Bang", so just bang till you die... Yeah, I got a little pissed there (I was being sarcastic), but seriously, you could go for it, but don't forget there may be regrets. The only other thing I can say is that, if you go for it, remember to use protection. I DON'T RECOMMEND GOING FOR IT. But hell, probably more than 50% of 14 year olds in the U.S. have had sex of some kind... so I really don't know, just remember, if she gets pregnant, it lies on your hands, and there is always the possibility of an STD/STI (Sexually Transmitted Disease/Infection), so yeah, sex is risky. BE CAREFUL! I still suggest you wait till you find the perfect girl... but whatever.

[byee]

I think you're too young at 14, too, but, hey, who am I? Besides, it sounds really moralistic and stuff, and who'd want to listen to that?

Eventhough i do have my own opinion here, I'm also listening to you. Are you? Go back and re read what you've said here and think about it. What kind of experience do you think you're likely to have with all that anxiety and worry you have at your size and performance? Probably not a very good one. And you seem to know that. So, listening to just you here, i'd say that you know you're not ready for this, either. And that's ok, even if others in your grade say they're doing it.

Everyone on the planet with any hormones running thru their veins wants to have sex. But that's not enough of a reason to actually do it when it becomes available. It's not the availability of the sex that should determine if you do it, it's your feelings about it. About her, and yourself. Go back and read what you've said.

Sex will always be there, there will be other opportunities.