help with connection issuses

[ackmedslayer556]

ok so for about 2 months now me and my girlfriend have really started fighting. and in the process of it all iv started to get angry problems and its has become very stressful. one of our fights(this one being the 3rd of the day) even got to the point were she had left in the middle of it and went to her moms for a couple hours. now through all the fighting we have had we have also realized it being a little blessing in hiding being because we have started to realize that we r starting fall apart just 2 months shy of our 1 year and i think that this is all because we havent really connected much since we have bin living together(4months) now as it stands right now the only time we connect is when we are eather fighting, talking(happens rarely), or having sex. now with everything i have gone through with her the last thing i want is to lose her and fall apart, exspesly(sorry bad grammer) with our 1 year only 2 months away. so if there is anyone on here that can help me and give me ideas that dont invole much that we can do to reconnect please please please help us!!!!!!! :(:(

[Aneka]

Hi,your problem is quite common in many couples.Dating for smbd for a long time,we begin forgetting why are you together and stop appreciating what you have. All relationships need a lot of work,not just in the beginning but during the whole period. Women are very sensitive and accept everything close to their heart,and their would be less fighting if men could understand this.So stop focusing on bad side of your relationship,and begin showing love to your girlfriend,spoil her with attention and compliments,let her know what she means for you and don't be afraid to talk about this. Also if she's your lover try not to offense or harm her,vice verse work on reviling respect and love to each other.And next time if she begins the fight,try not to respond, just listen to her and after that give her a hug and say how much you love her! wish u good luck and happy life!

[ackmedslayer556]

ok thanks alot man. that is some great advice. ill deffs take this to heart