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MissDisney_x
October 23rd, 2012, 01:33 PM
Me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago.
We were both each others first relationship.
We just stopped talking as much as we used to and the chemistry dissapeared.

Weve both said we still have feelings for each other but hes been sleeping with someone else weekly since we split up.

I really love him and i know he loves me but i dont understand how hes moved on so quick.
He says he just wants time to experience being a single lad, basically wants to sleep around and drink all the time.

We both want to stay friends, but he knows this isnt enough for me
I want him back :( What can i do?

FreeFall
October 23rd, 2012, 01:56 PM
You want a relationship.

He wants to be free, sleep around, and drink.

You've no choice but to move on.

The lifestyle he wants and the life you both want will not and cannot go hand in hand. Why torment yourself by being his friend and hearing how he slept with a girl and how it was, how he plans to sleep with another girl and how amazing she will be, why?