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joshuas
October 23rd, 2012, 08:50 AM
Hello, today I was masturbating and my bro just happened to come into my room to ask me something. I would have instantly stopped but it happens that I was ejaculating and couldn't just put the pajamas back on. He saw that and simply walked out. Now, it is awkward and weird to walk past him. But he seems to act as if nothing happened. What should I do?

Joey15
October 23rd, 2012, 09:25 AM
Do what he is doing and act like nothing happened lol

nfs4394
October 23rd, 2012, 09:38 AM
If he continues to act like nothing happened, then you should do the same thing. I know it's hard to forget that it happened, but if it never gets brought up then you don't have to worry about it

rude10
October 23rd, 2012, 02:39 PM
you shouldnt avoid this..it could get much more weird, trust me. just talk to him..it'll be akward at first but it'll be the best for you two.

Athlete15
October 23rd, 2012, 02:45 PM
I'm sure he does it too so just talk to him about it and it will clear the air real fast.

senior.2013
October 23rd, 2012, 03:08 PM
Do the same. Just leave it. Everyone does it so its nothing to worry about.

uberwhal3
October 23rd, 2012, 05:52 PM
Hes a guy, Im sure he jacks it just as much as you.

Michael Anthony
October 23rd, 2012, 07:50 PM
yea, don't freak out about it
just act like nothing happened
me and my bro share a room and see each other all the time, it's not a big deal

justinglives
October 23rd, 2012, 08:45 PM
Just ignore it.
If he's a normal guy he does it too, and understands so its no big deal.
Someday u may walk in on him and give him the same courtesy.

Aaron Y
October 24th, 2012, 10:25 AM
Just put it behind ur head..dont bring up the topic..

Sean4U
October 24th, 2012, 10:27 AM
not sure which of you is older, but either way, just let it go ....chances are if he is a teen he is doing the same thing...give him the same courtesy if you happen to walk in on him ....my brother and I, like Michael, share and room and j/o whenever we want, it is no big deal, but it took time to feel that way.....

saul1026
October 24th, 2012, 11:14 AM
just shrug it of

skikid22
October 24th, 2012, 01:55 PM
talk to him about it

ImCoolBeans
October 24th, 2012, 08:13 PM
I'm sure he does it too so just talk to him about it and it will clear the air real fast.

If this happened to me and one of my brothers brought it up again I'd probably want to just crawl in a hole and die. I think that when something like this happens it's just best left alone. It will be forgotten soon -- it's a natural part of life -- nothing to worry about.

JJSSHH
October 24th, 2012, 09:09 PM
I would just go with it. Just forget about it for now, and dont bring it up.

skyforever8
October 24th, 2012, 09:37 PM
Never speak of it again lol

AwesomeGuy15
October 24th, 2012, 09:59 PM
i agree with both talk about then forget about it after

Gmw12
November 10th, 2012, 11:48 PM
Go along with it and act like it never happened unless you really wanna talk to him about it

Oukakystan95
November 13th, 2012, 12:00 AM
i wudnt bring it up if he doesnt

West Coast Sheriff
November 13th, 2012, 12:04 AM
It depends how old he is. If he's over 13, I'm sure he does it too and knows what you are going through. My best suggestion is just not to bring it up. :D

isaiah1038
November 13th, 2012, 12:06 AM
if I were in your shoes:

Act as if nothing happened, he probably- no- DEFINETELY does it too. In a few weeks or so, the awkwardness will be gone... Plus it could be worse: Your parents or sister (if you have one) or something could have caught you. O_o THAT would have been awkward

Don't worry bro, it'll be all right! :)

Lost in the Echo
November 13th, 2012, 12:13 AM
Really I don't think you need to do or say anything, masturbation is just a normal part of curiosity and hormones during puberty.
He probably just walked away and didn't bring it up because he probably knows how you feel, because almost every guy, especially teens masturbate.

superstarB
November 13th, 2012, 12:41 AM
Act like it did not happen

joshuas
November 13th, 2012, 09:51 AM
Thanks to everyone's replies~! I chose not to talk to him about it.
And as truly said by some people here, I walked on him today lol, I gave him back the favor :P

Coolboi
November 13th, 2012, 10:09 AM
Just pretend nothing happend an if he says anything talk about it then .

darthreilly
November 13th, 2012, 06:22 PM
this happened with both my older and younger brother and i just said, "gotta do what i gotta do" ha thats when we were young as well so dont sweat it man who honestly cares.

alexkun
November 20th, 2012, 11:57 PM
jajjaja... wow!.... it's never happened to me.. but i would feel.. so awkward.... too bad it happened to you.. the least you could to is talk to him about it instead of just acting like nothing happened.

zerosix22
November 24th, 2012, 12:27 AM
Act like theres nothing happened. He knows what you did though.

xMr.CoolGuyx
November 24th, 2012, 12:52 AM
Do what he does, act like it didn't happen. It happened to me once, and we just both forgot about it.

curiousme
November 26th, 2012, 01:20 PM
How old is he? cause if hes 12,13,14 or older he most likely jerks off too so just dont worry about it since he doesnt say anything about it

racin20h
November 28th, 2012, 02:03 PM
I am sure he masturbates too so just act like nothing happenef

dan8854
December 17th, 2012, 09:49 AM
My sister walked in on me...that's even worse!

Troy35216
December 17th, 2012, 10:28 AM
it's awkward for you to walk past him but not awkward for him. he acts like nothing happened. sounds like he already forgot about it so you should too. he is already telling you how to handle it by the way he is handling it. if you bring it up it will only increase that awkward feeling that you're trying to get rid of

appel1234
December 17th, 2012, 12:32 PM
just forget about it

Uncut Joe
December 20th, 2012, 02:16 PM
If he's not saying anything, then you probably shouldn't either. The ball is completely in his field after the situation, and so if he decided not to ask any questions or act weirdly then you probably shouldn't either.

aljota95
December 21st, 2012, 07:25 PM
he definitely jacks just as much as you do, so don't worry about it. you can always just be straight forward and make a joke out of it.

ULeon
December 22nd, 2012, 07:41 PM
it seams like he understands and acts like if nothing happened so he probably does not put to much importance to it..

tarheelboy8888
December 22nd, 2012, 08:49 PM
If he doesn't want to talk about it, then don't!!

jlchill
December 22nd, 2012, 09:06 PM
i have my cousin here next to me and he's wankin his wood, we're like brothers.. just feel the same way that it doesnt matter at all.. you're both boys.. and im pretty sure he's doin the same thing.

Pooperpatty
December 23rd, 2012, 12:47 AM
Oh that is not so bad... lol... Just confront him and let him know that he should probably knock first... :D

ThatGuy69
December 30th, 2012, 10:02 AM
He probably does it anyway, so he will understand, you just have to go and explain to him and then maybe he might do it with you if you want that

resss
January 1st, 2013, 01:03 PM
just act like him