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theUnprofessional
October 22nd, 2012, 11:35 PM
So, I'm very unsure so let me explain: I am attracted to girls mostly but there is a classmate(he has a girlfriend :P) that I ''fancy''. Problem is I'm confused if its just a hormonal thing(wanting to see down there of someone else) or if im bi?

sofa-king-chill
October 22nd, 2012, 11:57 PM
Curious

ekul6159
October 23rd, 2012, 12:12 AM
You may just be curious, but you cannot deny bisexual feelings. Most people in their lives will have feelings. Don't worry about it. It may just be rushes of testosterone and curiosity of the male body and how you compare. But don't lie to yourself. If there are many boys that you also find attractive it maybe even more of a personal matter.

ovkind
October 27th, 2012, 06:05 PM
i feel the same way with a friend of mine, i would love to suck his dick but im to scared on how he would react. and help?

teenage-kicks
October 27th, 2012, 06:25 PM
I'm the same way with some people.
But when it's purely aesthetics (i.e. how they look) it's really just sexual I'd say. And when it's just sexual and there's no emotional feelings then I don't think it could be anything more than curiosity, in my opinion.

Sean4U
October 27th, 2012, 07:16 PM
Could be both curiosity or the fact that you might fancy being bi......but at the same time, you're still young and the hormones may be causing this, as we are all curious about others penis and size, etc.....

Duke Blue Devils
October 27th, 2012, 07:57 PM
More than likely, you're curious because of hormones. However, there is a chance that you could have emotional feelings toward this "friend" of yours. I hope I could help! :D

Cicero
October 27th, 2012, 08:36 PM
We do not know based off of two sentences. You could be curious or bi. Wait to label yourself when you done with puberty.

toomuch
October 27th, 2012, 11:15 PM
ur probably curios, i have the same expirience

wish_master_TWA
October 27th, 2012, 11:26 PM
Curious, I was the same way, so take it from all of us it's normal and your hormones are just on the rampage wanting to have anything to do with sex! :D

Optical
October 28th, 2012, 04:08 AM
Curious or bi

Boroboii
October 28th, 2012, 05:14 AM
Just curious fella! Try get someone to try stuff with u

Athlete15
October 28th, 2012, 06:09 AM
As has been previously we have no idea what you are based off two sentences, but you will eventually figure it out over time. Just don't label yourself yet, you have plenty of time to find out who/what you are.

robbymas23
October 30th, 2012, 01:53 PM
It depends. You will never know unless you go with the flow --- just do what feels good for you.

Jaseeee
November 4th, 2012, 12:16 PM
Probably curoius

The captain
November 4th, 2012, 12:51 PM
curious and it's pretty normal at our age (teens)

thaynjr17
November 4th, 2012, 02:31 PM
More than likely just curious.

blaze16
November 4th, 2012, 02:36 PM
I feel the same, but i don't consider myself gay...

teenfromNJ
November 4th, 2012, 02:36 PM
I was kinda the same way! You are just curious! Perfectly normal

StoppingTime
November 4th, 2012, 04:59 PM
Puberty 101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality. This question fits better there.

TigerBoy
November 5th, 2012, 06:28 AM
Wait to label yourself when you done with puberty.

While I agree with the spirit of 'not rushing to label', some people feel they need a point of reference for how they feel "right now", and some are also clear about their sexual preferences far before they reach the end of puberty.

My view is that its not helpful to overly worry about labels at any point in your life, since they put artificial limits on the understanding of your sexuality that may well prove false and create confusion simply because you thought you fit into a particular category. Kinsey already demonstrated that sexuality is not limited to discrete definitions of 'gay', 'straight' or 'bi' but rather is a continuum (sliding scale). This has been recognised for a long time now.

dusman77
November 5th, 2012, 10:23 AM
Yeah, i know how ya feel. But I'll never admit I'm bi, even if I think I might be.