View Full Version : Am I bisexual or just gay?
odinofasgard
October 22nd, 2012, 04:31 PM
Ok so I'm a 15 year old boy and I know I'm attracted to guys. I watch gay porn, check out hot guys at school, all that stuff. I am still a virgin though, never been with a guy only a girl and did get aroused by it. I think girls are attractive, however I'm not as attracted to them as guys. I can watch porn with girls in it and get aroused and stuff but I would usually prefer to watch gay porn. I'm not that attracted to boobs i actually prefer smaller boobs on girls so would that mean that I like it when girls kind of have more guy features? Does this mean I'm bisexual but like guys more, or is this just my hormones telling me I like girls when I'm really just gay? I have come out to my gay friend and am planning on coming out completely but I don't want to say I'm bi and really be gay. Feel free to ask me any other information that might help you answer the question. Thank you.
nice
October 22nd, 2012, 04:45 PM
You could be bi but just had a stronger attraction to guys
Edawg
October 22nd, 2012, 05:09 PM
You could be bi but just had a stronger attraction to guys
I agree!
Twilly F. Sniper
October 22nd, 2012, 06:54 PM
Bisexual. Obviously not gay. Its either that, or just curious about women.
But, it could be just puberty like most other people here say.
LoveMe_HateMe
October 23rd, 2012, 07:18 PM
Honestly? My opinion?
You're 15, you don't need to label yourself, you still have your whole life to live, you'll go through amazing relationships, and bad ones, it happens, why should it matter if it's with a male or females?
When I was 15, I thought I was straight, 3 years ago, I thought I was bi, 1and a half years ago I knew I was lesbian. And i am now proud of it, in a happy relationship.
My point still stands that you don't have to, or you shouldn't feel like you need to label yourself, you'll find yourself out soon enough, just give it some time :)
Athlete15
October 23rd, 2012, 08:32 PM
This is like my exact situation... Almost everything you said rings true for me.
ArsenicCatNip
October 23rd, 2012, 08:47 PM
You shouldn't worry about it and be so quick to label yourself You're still developing, physically and mentally at 15.
LoveMe_HateMe
October 24th, 2012, 05:00 AM
This is like my exact situation... Almost everything you said rings true for me.
Then I guess what I said for the OP stands then:
Honestly? My opinion?
You're 15, you don't need to label yourself, you still have your whole life to live, you'll go through amazing relationships, and bad ones, it happens, why should it matter if it's with a male or females?
When I was 15, I thought I was straight, 3 years ago, I thought I was bi, 1and a half years ago I knew I was lesbian. And i am now proud of it, in a happy relationship.
My point still stands that you don't have to, or you shouldn't feel like you need to label yourself, you'll find yourself out soon enough, just give it some time :)
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Don't be so quick to label yourselves, there's enough people out there who will do it for you...
berns.pdf
October 24th, 2012, 10:54 AM
You can consider the Kinsey scale.
Don't stress about what you label yourself to be. Be attracted to who and whatever attracts you. Let yourself go & be free in thought and action.
http://skew.dailyskew.com/uploaded_images/KINS-774322.GIF
JJSSHH
October 25th, 2012, 05:37 PM
you are who you are. no need to label it :) just love you who you want. If your sexually attractive to both males and females then i would consider you bi. Best of luck man
Lost in the Echo
October 25th, 2012, 05:57 PM
I think you're bi, since you're still moderately attracted to girls. I also think it could be hormones, so since you're obviously still in puberty, you shouldn't feel pressured to label yourself as Bi/Gay yet because the hormones caused by puberty can make you very confused about your sexuality, you might be turned on now by things you'll find disguising when you're an adult, so I think hormones play a big factor in the orientation dilemma you seem to be having, like I said though, don't feel like you have to label yourself yet, your sexuality should be clear to you by the end of puberty, so don't worry.
Pierce
October 28th, 2012, 10:22 AM
I think it's a hard and confusing time right now and you shouldm wait a while before you put a label on yourself. Honestly though from what I hear right now I think you might be gay. The attraction to girl's might just be the teenage horniness coming out lol. But again i would wait a while before you put a label on yourself or even start to care about that.
Halcyon
October 28th, 2012, 11:07 AM
Don't be in a hurry to label yourself, you'll only get confused! You could be bi with a preference to boys, you could be gay, but only you can know that for certain and you'll know when you know. That's the best advice I can give you :)
JJSSHH
October 28th, 2012, 11:22 AM
You could be bi but just had a stronger attraction to guys
pretty much sums it up
dontfiguremeout
October 28th, 2012, 11:33 AM
Well to be label yourself straight, bi, or gay, you need to have the emotional part in it! That's what really tells you which you are! And all you did was stress about the physical part, which is basically a phase because of all the hormones guys have! If you really like girls emotionally, but still are attracted to guys in a way, then your Bi Curious. It doesn't really mean your bi, it means your just curious! Which is perfectly normal for ALL guys and even girls too!
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