jhv222
October 22nd, 2012, 02:00 PM
This is a long story, a lot has happened, but I will try keep it as short and clear as possible.
Situation:
-I am a junior in college. I have know this girl, who is a sophomore, for two years.
-We had a good friendship, but she had a boyfriend the entire time I knew her.
-I think she used to have a thing for me, and I liked her, but I kept my distance since she had a boyfriend.
-At the beginning of this year, I went to a dance with her, then we hooked up.
-After this, she went on a break with her boyfriend for about two months.
-I only talked to her when I saw her on campus or at parties.
-I texted her to hang out last weekend on saturday night. Her replies were short and she had a meeting to go to, but said she would text me after. I didn't get my hopes up and didn't expect a text. She never did text me that night.
-I haven't talked to her since then, but she broke up with her boyfriend on the Sunday after I texted her. (So she has been broken up with him for about a week)
My concerns:
-I really like this girl, I feel angry at myself for hooking up with her because I miss the friendship we used to have.
-I rarely see her on campus, and if I do it's just passing by. I want to hang out with her again because I feel like we would both have a good time, but I feel like I may not get that opportunity.
Like I said, I am really into this girl and would want to date her eventually, but for now I would rather just restore our friendship. I don't know how to do that since the only time she actually would have a conversation with me is when we are face to face.
I am willing to be patient, and don't mind if I have to give her time. But just don't know what I can do to help the situation.
Situation:
-I am a junior in college. I have know this girl, who is a sophomore, for two years.
-We had a good friendship, but she had a boyfriend the entire time I knew her.
-I think she used to have a thing for me, and I liked her, but I kept my distance since she had a boyfriend.
-At the beginning of this year, I went to a dance with her, then we hooked up.
-After this, she went on a break with her boyfriend for about two months.
-I only talked to her when I saw her on campus or at parties.
-I texted her to hang out last weekend on saturday night. Her replies were short and she had a meeting to go to, but said she would text me after. I didn't get my hopes up and didn't expect a text. She never did text me that night.
-I haven't talked to her since then, but she broke up with her boyfriend on the Sunday after I texted her. (So she has been broken up with him for about a week)
My concerns:
-I really like this girl, I feel angry at myself for hooking up with her because I miss the friendship we used to have.
-I rarely see her on campus, and if I do it's just passing by. I want to hang out with her again because I feel like we would both have a good time, but I feel like I may not get that opportunity.
Like I said, I am really into this girl and would want to date her eventually, but for now I would rather just restore our friendship. I don't know how to do that since the only time she actually would have a conversation with me is when we are face to face.
I am willing to be patient, and don't mind if I have to give her time. But just don't know what I can do to help the situation.