TaylrJ
October 21st, 2012, 09:05 PM
I am a guy, 15, and bisexual. I also like this guy who is 14, and I think is gay. We are both in the closet still, neither of us have came out to each other yet. and I can tell he sort've likes me, like how I like him. I have posted a forum on this topic before: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=153137
It is about the stuff he does (2nd paragraph). But lately, things he has been doing are even more convincing.
He has invited me over twice. Once was because he wanted me there because his parents weren't home. Nothing happened though. He flirts with me a lot. I also do it back with him to play along. Anyways, He has texted me before saying "I love you", telling me how much he loves me, or how I make him feel. I also do it back to him. In class, we always sit beside each other. When we do, he blows a kiss and winks at me. He rubs his foot on mine and puts his arm around me a lot too. If we are at the same event, such as a football game, we are together the whole time. We have nicknames that we call each other and have about a million inside jokes we always laugh over. I also leave love letters in his locker sometimes telling him how he's hot or sexy. He doesn't have a problem with it. Another thing is I am always messing with him doing something annoying trying to flirt. Like I rub water on his face, toss rocks at him, mess up his hair, take embarrassing pictures of him, and stuff like that. He does them back and sometimes is the first to do them too. After that, we get in this little pretend argument over it and act like we are mad at each other. But all this stuff he does is always played as a joke. I think why is because if someone suspects something, he can say "it was a joke" as a cover up. Plus I try to make it all a joke too, even though it means something.
What do you think? I guess what I am asking "Do you thinks he likes me?" Because I have came to a conclusion that he is gay. Also, please don't tell me that we should come out to each other. Things are progressing so quickly that I think if we just go with the flow, we will eventually do something extremely obvious (for example, a kiss), and then we will both know for sure. Cause we both sense a feeling about being gay towards each other anyways. Well can you please help? Thanks..
It is about the stuff he does (2nd paragraph). But lately, things he has been doing are even more convincing.
He has invited me over twice. Once was because he wanted me there because his parents weren't home. Nothing happened though. He flirts with me a lot. I also do it back with him to play along. Anyways, He has texted me before saying "I love you", telling me how much he loves me, or how I make him feel. I also do it back to him. In class, we always sit beside each other. When we do, he blows a kiss and winks at me. He rubs his foot on mine and puts his arm around me a lot too. If we are at the same event, such as a football game, we are together the whole time. We have nicknames that we call each other and have about a million inside jokes we always laugh over. I also leave love letters in his locker sometimes telling him how he's hot or sexy. He doesn't have a problem with it. Another thing is I am always messing with him doing something annoying trying to flirt. Like I rub water on his face, toss rocks at him, mess up his hair, take embarrassing pictures of him, and stuff like that. He does them back and sometimes is the first to do them too. After that, we get in this little pretend argument over it and act like we are mad at each other. But all this stuff he does is always played as a joke. I think why is because if someone suspects something, he can say "it was a joke" as a cover up. Plus I try to make it all a joke too, even though it means something.
What do you think? I guess what I am asking "Do you thinks he likes me?" Because I have came to a conclusion that he is gay. Also, please don't tell me that we should come out to each other. Things are progressing so quickly that I think if we just go with the flow, we will eventually do something extremely obvious (for example, a kiss), and then we will both know for sure. Cause we both sense a feeling about being gay towards each other anyways. Well can you please help? Thanks..