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ILoveSoccer
October 20th, 2012, 10:19 PM
So I love this girl... When I talk to her, I know I love her... When I don't talk to her, I start to get confused about whether or not I love her until I talk to her next

StoppingTime
October 20th, 2012, 10:26 PM
>You're 15
>You know you love someone because you two talk.

This may just be me, but I don't know how you can "know" love like this. Unless, of couse, my definition of love is quite different from yours. My definition of love is a deep emotional (and, usually physical), connection between two people. This is generally developed over a long period of time. Love isn't a word I like to just throw around, so this is probably why I'm answering like this.

If you see love differently, than I suppose you could "love" her. But, what does that mean then?

ILoveSoccer
October 20th, 2012, 10:37 PM
Well... I always want to be with her, would do anything for her to be happy and would do anything for her in general, I trust her and value her above everyone else (except my best friend)

workingatperfect
October 20th, 2012, 10:42 PM
If you're unsure about it when you aren't with her, I'd say probably not. When you really love someone, you don't need to ask anybody if you do, you just know. And you know all the time, whether you're talking to them at the moment or not. No one can tell you you're in love but yourself.

FreeFall
October 20th, 2012, 11:44 PM
When I don't talk to her, I start to get confused
And this right here pins it. Nope! You're infatuated with her it seems, but you're not IN love with her.
When you love someone you know, it's certain, it's solid. When she's not with you, you don't know your feelings.

That's not love.

Electrovx
October 21st, 2012, 01:14 AM
The only thing i have ever loved was......nothing...my definition of love id odd...i dont even know whay a crush feels like...fact that im weird anyways....anyways i agree with freefall! XD

Dawn01
October 21st, 2012, 08:31 AM
I agree with FreeFall... I think you have a crush on her, but you are not exactly IN LOVE with her :)

Have you tried to ask her out? I think you should ^^

ILoveSoccer
October 21st, 2012, 08:38 AM
I agree with FreeFall... I think you have a crush on her, but you are not exactly IN LOVE with her :)

Have you tried to ask her out? I think you should ^^
She's kinda religious so she doesn't do that

Dawn01
October 21st, 2012, 09:08 AM
So she doesn't wanna date anyone? :o That's complicated... Have you two ever talked about being more than friends?

MissDisney_x
October 23rd, 2012, 01:42 PM
If your IN love with someone you shouldnt have to ask yourself,
because you just know.

Maybe you think your in love with her but infact your not.
Theres a big difference between loving somebody and being IN love