Sexuality

[Santiago]

I really have no clue what I am.

When I look at guys I get horny and I physically attracted to them. Not so much girls but mentally I tell myself I am. I want to have a family with a wife and kids. Is anyone else feeling this way.

[alexhack7]

I feel the exact same way and have thought it through many times. Don't worry, you're not alone.

[JDubs]

Same. I'm BI, but it's not really a choice, just a feeling, and and sure someday I'll like girls more. Just part of getting older

[OceanBlue]

Yep I am like that too..

[TigerBoy]

Don't plan to settle down with a whole gender, plan to settle down with a person you love. You'll be much happier that way.

[DerBear]

To be honest even at 16 hormones can interrupt what you truly feel. You really need to be both physically and emotionally attached to a gender. If you can decide that then it will help you in determining your sexuality. Being physically attracted to a gender alone can help determine your sexuality. However more often than not, you need to see an emotional side. Otherwise it is just curiosity and hormones.

However take your time and don't stress over it. You'll decide one day when you can look at it all (feelings) and see how you really feel.

[joshM1996]

I really have no clue what I am.

When I look at guys I get horny and I physically attracted to them. Not so much girls but mentally I tell myself I am. I want to have a family with a wife and kids. Is anyone else feeling this way.

Don't worry yourself with labels, if you don't wanna be with a girl then don't be with one, if you want to be with a guy go for it. And you can still have kids if you're married to a gay, it would just be a surrogate pregnancy

[MartyG]

Hiya Santiago....WELCOME!!!

You and I could be twins. I had the same dream...wife, kids, house with the white picket fence and a mini-van .

Our parents have dreams like that for us too...sometimes. That's one of the reasons why a lot of parents have a hard time accepting that their boy is gay. It upsets their dream and it takes them a while to build a new one.

Hang in there; Just accept yourself for who you are and choose friends who will support you.

[Santiago]

The best part of going through my process of finding who I am is, I have a lesbian mother that I can talk to.

[nice]

The best part of going through my process of finding who I am is, I have a lesbian mother that I can talk to.

That's awesome then she will sorta be able to understand what your going through and give you advice if you ask for it.