View Full Version : Best friend reunited - please advese - I don't know what to do
Cycling Penguin
October 20th, 2012, 04:58 PM
Ok so j move school in may 2011. Whbe at my old school watercross I was best friend with a boy called james who is a year younger than me. We(sexually) experimented together although he was something a bit reluctant to do that. The last time I saw him we experimented. I want to meet up with him again (notto experiment but to just be friends). We have really similar interests but when I've been emailing him he hasnt been replying. I could call him but I think he might not wat to be friends anymore
What should I do? Call him and try to meet up even though he might reject me or do I just forget him - I dont want to do that he's a great friend
Thanks
Foamy
October 20th, 2012, 06:31 PM
Give him a bit more time. He probably didn't want to experiment in the first place, given that he was reluctant. You sound a little desperate in the way you say that you've been emailing him. Give a while, make him seem like you've forgotten and then try contact again. If he replies great; if not oh well.
FreeFall
October 20th, 2012, 11:56 PM
He was reluctant to experiment, you were the one he experimented with.
All you have to do is say hello once and he knows the door is open. Let him alone, don't smother him. Let him come to you.
He may be a great friend but the thing you need to remember is this;
does he want to be your friend?
You may want to be all buddy buddy, he may not. So just say hi when you see him once in awhile, just a friendly wave, let him initiate any conversations. Let time run its course and go from there (:
Apollo.
October 21st, 2012, 12:26 PM
The guy probably needs time, the guy may feel he has been pushed into experimenting and maybe only thought this once you had moved. He might come round with time if he starts to miss you. I wouldn't call him, you may start to look desperate. If he doesn't reply leave him be and try and move on even though it will be difficult.
squibles976
October 21st, 2012, 12:59 PM
Maybe its shame Idk
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