i miss him and i'm jealous of her

[mynameisjane]

i met this guy who was just like me. i had a crush on him and we were good friends and he would compliment me a lot but he didnt want a girlfriend. for some reason, i started to find him annoying, and i started to be rude, so he got annoyed at me and we quit talking. now i miss him and he's found another girl to be friends with and he compliments her a lot and i'm jealous and he doesnt really want to talk to me anymore, doesnt even look at me when i pass him in the hall. is there anyway i can fix this?

[Jordo]

something like this happened to me very recently :( I dont know what to do!

[Mirataku]

psychologically you need to build up your self image, imagine yourself as someone else, someone sweet and kind and approach this person, communicate with them and express your feelings, but be prepared if they say no

[Θάνατος]

It is a hard thing to do but you need to move on and find another friend. It would be cool if you could work things out and be friends still but it does not look good for you.

[mynameisjane]

to miritaku, theres no point telling him how i feel because even when he if he likes me back, which he seemed to have for a while, he doesnt want a girlfriend because he's going to be moving.

to liondb21, yeah, that makes sense. but its hard because we go to the same school and i see him in the halls and everytime i see him, especially when he's with her, it reminds me how i screwed things up and i wish she wasnt better than me in every way and i wish i could be with him and we'd be happy together and we'd figure something out when he has to move. we'd probably even last a long distance relationship. i've never met anyone so much like me.

i often think about how i was around him. he's one of the last genuine nice guys that i know. he's not lame kind of nice guy but classy kind of nice guy. he made me want to be good, and i acted like more of a good girl than i really was. not that i lied, but i was just more proper than normal. and i it was a good change from the last guys i felt like i had to act sexier around to get their attention, which sometimes maked me feel gross later.

but then again, i believe in fate and i'll just have to remember that it seems it wasnt meant to be. one day i'll meet a guy even more like me, only i wont have to act good or bad around him, i could just be myself and we'll match perfectly.