Should I brake up with him ?

[Layla]

I dated a guy called Jaymie for 3 years we broke up and we hardly speak although we have the same friends, it got compicated when I fell in love with his best friend Zac and me and Zac started sleeping together behind Jaymies back , Zac has his own flat and I would sleep over every weekend only last weekend we were in the bedroom when Jaymie came straight in (he has a key) and found us in bed togethe he flipped out and punchdd Zac and told every1 I am a slag I feel rearly bad we should have told him but me and Zac love each other! Help me please what should I/we do??

[nice]

You guys should apologise for doin it behind his back but say you did it because you didn't want to hurt him. And also state that you guys broke up so he shouldn't really worry about who you date espically if he dumped you. But say it in a nice way so you don't trigger him to flip out.

[FreeFall]

I'm assuming you broke up before you started to "love" Zac. If you broke up before this, tell him to get a life and go away.

It's not his business nor place to command what you, his ex, or his "best friend", do.

He had NO right to just walk into his friend's room. His friend should take that key back. Now. Make him get that key back. Or change his lock. What if it were another girl? That violates his privacy and her's.

Also, if you're sooooo in love, why're you hiding it? How do you do something behind your ex's back when he's not even involved? Shame on you for hiding it, this could've been avoided and been real easy.

You can't do anything. What's done is done, move on. You've no rworries, since it's all lies by your ex.
Anything an ex spreads about his ex who has every right to date whomever she pleases is moot. Don't bother to get hung up on it.

Also, date Zac openly. Stop sneaking around.

[Iron Man]

Okay, if you were dating Zac after you and this Jaymie broke up, then it isn't behind his back really. It is you moving on with your life, and Jaymie doing the same. Simple as that really.

[squibles976]

You shouldn't have gone behind his back, what you did was messed up

[Minzy]

You should talk to Zac about it, if you love him and he loves you then there would be no problem with dating openly. If you and Jaymie broke up then you should try and speak to him and ask him if he has a problem, he hasn't spoken to you in a while so he shouldn't really have a problem.
This Zac guy sounds like (to me) he has a problem with dating you openly, you try to speak to him about it :)