Does she still like me?

[duckduck]

We have been talking for ages, on facebook everynight too. I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same, so we went out on a first date just for some coffee, we both said we would like to go on another date. I wrote her a letter about how I felt and stuff, ever since the letter, she hasn't been talking to me on FB alot, once every few days at best. I am not sure she liked the letter as hasn't mentioned it to me. I texted her last weekend asking if she wanted to go out again, she replied with 'I would, but have plans, sorry x' which is fair enough - I know this is true as she posted on twitter about it. But I asked her again and she said she has so much going on at the moment, I am just not sure if she feels the same as I do or not.
I texted her this morning at like 10am (UK time) asking if she wanted to do something (we both have a day off college today) and she still hasn't replied yet (2.35pm uk time).
I just can't help but think she doesn't like me.
I don't want to keep on asking her as it hurts everytime I get rejected. I just want to ask her if she feels the same as I love her so much, but if she doesn't love me then I may as well give up, I don't want to freak her out or anything!

She isn't the sort of person to go out with everyone btw, I have known her for ages and we are both first timers. We are both 16 also.

Any advice would be appreciated.

sorry about the cheesy name, couldn't think of anything else! ha ha

[VladTheSinless]

Just give her some time and space to sort out her own issues. because like she said, she has lotsa stuff going on. But keep in touch with her and show some support.

If you want to know what she feels, my advice would be just let things cool off, be patient and wait for the right time to ask her what she really feels about you. I think it's all just about the timing. asking the wrong questions in the wrong time could ruin things for both of you.

don't think of negative stuff like maybe she doesn't like you when she told you what she felt and got you the chance to go on a date with her. She's just probably stressed out with the things going on with her.

Anyways that's just my advice. If you say you love her then don't give up just yet. :)

[duckduck]

Just give her some time and space to sort out her own issues. because like she said, she has lotsa stuff going on. But keep in touch with her and show some support.

If you want to know what she feels, my advice would be just let things cool off, be patient and wait for the right time to ask her what she really feels about you. I think it's all just about the timing. asking the wrong questions in the wrong time could ruin things for both of you.

don't think of negative stuff like maybe she doesn't like you when she told you what she felt and got you the chance to go on a date with her. She's just probably stressed out with the things going on with her.

Anyways that's just my advice. If you say you love her then don't give up just yet. :)


Thank you mate for the advice! I always tend to over think things!
Actually thinking about I know that things are not 100% with her friends at the moment.

I think I will give her some time and space :)

[Asaffff]

my advice would be to give her some space but also keep in touch with her. like ask her how's she doing and just regular questions without mentioning how she feels about you. also i would say dont try to meet her every time you talk because it sounds like she needs her space right now.

thats my advice hope it helps :)