Need relationship advice

[max041299]

There is this girl. In the beginning of 8th grade, she had a crush on me. She's a year older than me. Everyone told me to ask her out. That we would be cute together. I didn't like her, because she seemed clingy and needy. She's beautiful, and really fun, the only thing I didn't like about her was she seemed needy. Lets call this girl M. Also I liked one of her friends at the time. Let's call her R. I ended up going out with some other chick, for maybe a day. This seemed to put my reputation down really low. M and I became really good friends, to the point of talking on the phone, (not texting) from 6 PM to 2 AM almost every day. This happened for about two-three months. This is when I fell for her. I asked her out, and she rejected. Saying we were too good of friends. Supposedly I had asked right after, again, but I really didn't. We stayed good friends and nothing really changed. Three weeks later, I lied and pretended to say I didn't like her anymore. She blurted out, "But I still like you!" I know, mistake, but I admitted I lied, and she said she did too. So now she doesnt like me. Thinking she changed her mind, I asked her out again. She explained to me that she had a crush on me a while ago but then I dated that other girl and she didnt like me anymore. We stopped talking and now its like we never even met, and she doesn't exist in my eyes, and I dont in hers. But one time, her friend, R, came over with M, to use something of mine. I really didn't care because we were still friends. While they were leaving I hugged R, R was out the door when M tried to hug me, I refused. She fought with me and tried to pin me on the bed to hug me. I asked why she was giving me mixed signals and she denied. She left. We haven't talked since. When we were friends it seemed like we were meant for each other. We liked the same things, and seemed really good together. I like her still, its been more than three months since we stopped talking. Ive dated other people, but I still like her. I don't know what to do.

[Eric57]

Honestly, both of you sound very immature and from what I was reading, it doesn't sound like either of you are ready for a relationship in any way, shape, or form. It shouldn't be that complicated and you shouldn't be playing all those games. You told her how you felt and she has rejected you several times already. Clearly she isn't interested if she keeps rejecting you. And even if she does like and you just doesn't want to admit it, that is a sign that she isn't ready to be in a relationship. Move on and find somebody else.

[Taryn98]

Honestly based on the way you both acted I'd say neither of you are mature enough for a relationship. You shouldn't have to lie or play games back and forth to start dating. It shouldn't be that complicated. I'd say look for someone else that knows what they want and shows you more respect.

[FreeFall]

Oh geez. that's a train wreck waiting. Move on, try again when both of you have grown up.

[max041299]

It's just really hard to understand women. I guess that's just a part of life. But all I want is to see if we ever would have a chance with each other.