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KifoThaKid
October 18th, 2012, 05:36 PM
I think I have the most accurate gaydar ever. At first I thought it was just my ego getting in the way of me thinking someone was gay, then I thought maybe I was just stereotyping but then when put that aside I realized that it was a sort of intuition. Do anyone else feel this way, too?

Apollo.
October 18th, 2012, 05:44 PM
I'm the complete opposite, I have a terrible gaydar, I'm the kind of guy that would think Freddie mercury was straight. I'd like to have a good gaydar it would make life easier!

nice
October 18th, 2012, 05:47 PM
I have an ok gaydar it just depends on the day

ImCoolBeans
October 18th, 2012, 06:32 PM
Your gaydar is not the most accurate ever. Possibly second - but not first - mine is the first. It's perfect 100% of the time.

KifoThaKid
October 18th, 2012, 06:41 PM
Your gaydar is not the most accurate ever. Possibly second - but not first - mine is the first. It's perfect 100% of the time.
Lol give me good example proving your gaydar accuracy!

MartyG
October 18th, 2012, 09:00 PM
I guess our generation will always need gaydar.

Kinda sad. You'd think that with all the years us humans have been around..that we'd be past that by now.

Of course the young will always be curious and un-decided or unsure....but for those who know and accept their sexuality it's a shame that we just can't put the word out so no one would need to guess.

ImCoolBeans
October 18th, 2012, 09:10 PM
I guess our generation will always need gaydar.

Kinda sad. You'd think that with all the years us humans have been around..that we'd be past that by now.

Of course the young will always be curious and un-decided or unsure....but for those who know and accept their sexuality it's a shame that we just can't put the word out so no one would need to guess.

You don't seem to understand much about sexuality it seems. It isn't always easy for somebody to be fully public with it. Family issues, friends, co-workers, classmates and just about anybody else who has openly negative opinions about homosexuality can prevent somebody from coming out. There is a lot of anxiety behind it and it does take a lot of self-confidence and acceptance to actually go through with it - things that not every body has. It can be especially hard when the person also does not have much support from friends and family, and in a society where it is not fully accepted it isn't any easier.

blackpo
October 18th, 2012, 11:17 PM
My gaydar is like almost nonexistent....It is never right lol it has only been right about like one person

Thepolice5291
October 19th, 2012, 12:52 AM
My Gaydar isn't right, I think everyone's gay most of the time, LOL

Cameron14
October 19th, 2012, 02:53 AM
Mine is terrible as well

TigerBoy
October 19th, 2012, 04:20 AM
Mines very good based on statistically limited chances to confirm my suspicions. I think it comes down to empathy and sensitivity for subtle clues (noticing where people are looking and their reactions and stuff like that).

Pierce
October 19th, 2012, 06:46 AM
It's all about watching their eyes.... what they look at..... that's why my Gaydar is pretty accurate.

The Mockingjay
October 19th, 2012, 08:51 AM
My Gaydar is completely accurate most of the time. I've guessed that four people were gay before they came out of the closet in the last year and all four of them are quite straight acting :D

MartyG
October 19th, 2012, 11:10 AM
You don't seem to understand much about sexuality it seems. It isn't always easy for somebody to be fully public with it. Family issues, friends, co-workers, classmates and just about anybody else who has openly negative opinions about homosexuality can prevent somebody from coming out. There is a lot of anxiety behind it and it does take a lot of self-confidence and acceptance to actually go through with it - things that not every body has. It can be especially hard when the person also does not have much support from friends and family, and in a society where it is not fully accepted it isn't any easier.

That was my point; which I think you missed. It's because of all the things you list here that people need "gaydar"....

If there weren't the perception issues...attitude issues...family support issues....more gays would be "Out" to the extent that their sexuality would be more openly discernable....with less need for "Gaydar" and the accompanying angst when it's wrong.

ImCoolBeans
October 19th, 2012, 02:16 PM
That was my point; which I think you missed. It's because of all the things you list here that people need "gaydar"....

If there weren't the perception issues...attitude issues...family support issues....more gays would be "Out" to the extent that their sexuality would be more openly discernable....with less need for "Gaydar" and the accompanying angst when it's wrong.

Then we're agreeing here :P

Unfortunately there will always be a certain kind of negative mindset about homosexuality within groups of people, but I do think that times are beginning to change and that negative outlook may start to shrink over time, as it already has began to.

wizard25
October 19th, 2012, 07:02 PM
my gaygar is accurate most times. the key really are the eyes. they say it all. like the quote, the eyes are the window of the soul. im very str8 acting probably because im a jock. i see a lot of boys naked. while i don't stare i do look at other naked boys a lot. i think it's normal. boys usually can tell im gay cuz im very open n proud of it. guess i have been lucky and i know it can be difficult for many boys.

Electra Heart
October 19th, 2012, 10:00 PM
Your gaydar is not the most accurate ever. Possibly second - but not first - mine is the first. It's perfect 100% of the time.

AhahahHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA. You're funny. I will allow you to believe this, but mine is the best.

kye.
October 22nd, 2012, 06:33 AM
I think I have the most accurate gaydar ever. At first I thought it was just my ego getting in the way of me thinking someone was gay, then I thought maybe I was just stereotyping but then when put that aside I realized that it was a sort of intuition. Do anyone else feel this way, too?

I stopped using it lol because I was just assuming and assuming made me feel bad when I realize they were straight -.-

TigerBoy
October 22nd, 2012, 06:37 AM
AhahahHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA. You're funny. I will allow you to believe this, but mine is the best.

Are you boys having a 'gay off' ? Can anyone play? :innocent:

Pierce
October 22nd, 2012, 06:42 AM
Omg let's calm down now. We can all have good gaydar. (just to spark an argument and keep it interesting) my gaydar is the best =p)

Twilly F. Sniper
October 22nd, 2012, 06:58 PM
Mine works at least.

Athlete15
October 22nd, 2012, 09:12 PM
My gaydar is comparable to Helen Keller's vision...

Brice
October 22nd, 2012, 09:35 PM
I try not to use a "gaydar." People can be so confusing sometimes. Acting straight 1 moment, gay the next. Plus, to me it seems a little bit rude and invasive. If people want you to know, they'll tell you. Of course, there are cases when you just have to know, so you ask them anyway and observe them, like in a case of liking someone if you don't know what they are exactly.

dontfiguremeout
October 22nd, 2012, 09:38 PM
Well I tend to find the most obvious ones, since I don't really focus on them really. I tend to focus on the girl I like right now! But I can tell if someone is gay pretty well actually! haha.

Steve Hala
December 7th, 2012, 06:33 PM
I dont have one lol

naitsabes
December 7th, 2012, 11:23 PM
i need one... this might sound stupid but is there any way to develop a gaydar?

teen.jpg
December 8th, 2012, 07:59 AM
Mine sucks. Tried to guess about 3 people, totally wrong.

Koffing
December 8th, 2012, 07:35 PM
I think I should ask santa for a new one, because my one is broken since I packed it out ofmthe box :D

Kodie S.
January 22nd, 2013, 09:24 PM
I have friend and ive known him for along time, he's pretty straight and hes had a girlfriend, i like him a lot. Every time we are alone together i feel connection between us. A sexual/romantic one. But i dont know what to do? I want to come on to him but I dont want to ruin the relationship. When he's over each other's houses we sleep in the same beds. When he sleeps, I "secretly" cuddle and play with his dick. Ik this is weird but ive been doing it for a while now but he never got hard, cuz he's asleep of course. But a few months ago I did the usual foreplay but this time he was hard. Like al the way, with precum and everything so what should i do?:confused: :eek:

Troy35216
January 22nd, 2013, 09:44 PM
i have excellent Yaydar. I can detect closet cheerleaders.
and good Praydar. I know who is secretly religious.

CharlieHorse
January 22nd, 2013, 09:45 PM
I have super gaydar too! :D
And praydar as well. :p

Abyssal Echo
January 22nd, 2013, 10:20 PM
my Gaydar seems pretty acurate

Lovelife090994
January 22nd, 2013, 11:25 PM
It's not a gaydar it's detecting a familiar lifestyle. People recognize what they have seen.

MDawg143
January 23rd, 2013, 12:12 AM
I think my gaydar is being blinded by my cru :(shes on straight guys making me wish they were gay. :(

Western
January 23rd, 2013, 10:08 AM
If I find a guy attractive I automatically think there gay.. never comes true :(