So confused

[Horizon]

Recently, on of my "friends", if I can even call them that, texted me the other day, telling me they wanted me to delete their number, and delete them off of my friends list on facebook... When I asked why, they told me it didn't matter why, they just wanted me to do it... I asked again, because I wanted to know what I did wrong, and they told me I was holding them back in life, from reaching their goals... I don't know what I did, and I don't wanna lose them as a friend, but they won't talk to me, and they blocked me on facebook... I just want to know what to do :(

[ackmedsgirl666]

move on.. if theyre senile enough to do that to you then they were never your friends. if they think they were holding you back then meh... let them think what they want as long as you know its not true... just find some new friends. find "true" friends not ones that will walk out on you because theyre lives arent good enough :)

[DerBear]

To be honest, I can sympathies with you to an extent, I once had a friend who randomly shut everyone out, not just me. However, we all wanted to know why..but enough about that.

My advice to you would be, show up at their door, honestly after speaking to you, you don't sound like the type to forget or let things go easily and I don't blame you. You should show up at where they live and ask for an answer, I mean really this guy sounds like a real douche bag to suddenly do that.

However if he is stubborn and doesn't want to tell you or resolve the issue then just let it go and move on. That is really all you can do. Because if you don't then you'll find yourself in a lot worse situation.

With time you will care less and less but honestly try speaking to him first before just giving up. It does work.

[kklondike]

Talk to them, honest man to man/woman whatever, lol. Try to figure out, cuz sometimes it could be another issue or they just can't help it or something. However, try to comply with his requests somewhat, because maybe he has a reason.

Also, if he's just being stubborn, closed off, and ignoring you, then screw him. Move on, and it'll get less and less frustrating at the thought of losing a friend. i know it sounds harsh, but if he doesn't want you to be his friend and is being a butt, then he doesn't deserve you.

[Pierce]

I find that very weird. I would try to delete them on fb but not on phone and "accidentally" run in on them and talk to them face to face.

[kklondike]

I find that very weird. I would try to delete them on fb but not on phone and "accidentally" run in on them and talk to them face to face.

oh that's a good idea lol maybe i'll try the "accidentally" running into them thing cuz it would probably help a lot....ty!

[Pierce]

oh that's a good idea lol maybe i'll try the "accidentally" running into them thing cuz it would probably help a lot....ty!

No problem.

[huntersteele11]

does a real friend even do that and if your answer is no then is he even worth it? just sayin

[Allanon]

sorry

[dudley_doright]

If their reason was valid they might not need to be secretive. Messing with your mind. Too much drama. Forget it.