How do we advance in this relationship?

[rooamazing]

Me and this girl both like each other and we both know, we text all the time and talk loads on the phone and at school, it's not awkward at all but there is a party in a few days and what should I do, does she expect anything and if she does what and how do I just go with it, steps? I want this relationship to go far. We're both 13, people in our year have started kissing in the corridors all the time. I don't know if thats what she wants (and I wouldn't mind that, as long as it was a little more private, more romantic etc). She has been out with people before and I think she has kissed others before, I haven't she is my first real crush (we aren't officially going out because of peers, they are always like 'awwwwww' and it's horrible) I want to spend time with her and I want to go far with her, she is overall a really attractive, really kind girl. I need your help.

[Harley Quinn]

You're 13 and want to go far with her? Jesus what/who are the youth of today being influenced by.

Look, just let whatever happens happen, you don't need to rush it, there's no point. You may feel like you have to go far and do whatever, but you don't. You both like each other, it isn't awkward and I think that's the main thing. If you want to be romantic and all that bullshit, talk to her about and see how she feels about the whole 'progression' of your relationship. But like I said, just go with the flow.

[rooamazing]

Thanks, and I didn't mean sex... I realise how that may of sounded now...! hahaha! Thanks a lot! :D

[Harley Quinn]

Oh, now I understand more. I thought you were talking about sex, but seeing as you're not I think that you just need to communicate your feelings with her.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I was about fourteen.

[Dangoblin]

I, unfortunately, havent kissed anyone and I'm 15. I'm not stating that its a bad thing, but i wouldnt mind it happening soon ;)

[Apollo.]

I voted 16 even though I'm gay this was a girl and at the time I did care for her and have feelings she was the first girl i really liked instead of just going out with for the hell of it but the feelings soon faded! In response to the question just tell her you like her you have nothing to lose your 13 so even if she isn't interested in taking things further in your relationship its not the end of the world. Try and not be to full on with the romantic stuff though, I think if I was 13 and someone started asking for a really serious relationship I'd back off quick